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[-] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

In high school, I was just kinda vibing by myself, and a girl came up to me and struck up a brief conversation.

"You don't seem to care what other people think about you. I wish I could be like that." Which I assume was intended as a compliment.

In retrospect, it seems like it was probably in part an advance with reserved romantic intent. In retrospect I probably got a surprising amount of that, I was very socially oblivious back then and some situations make more sense to me now.

That one probably sticks out to me the most because back then I didn't get many compliments. As I've gotten older, more savvy, more skilled, and more confident, I get so many compliments that they just kinda fade into the background. Combine that with deliberately trying to be humble, and they get forgotten pretty quickly.

this post was submitted on 14 Jul 2026
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