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Heyhey everyone,

I am going to switch from my Synapse instance (back) to Continuwuity in a month. The main reason I've been using it is to chat with family who are only on Whatsapp and iMessage (Yes, I tried getting them someplace else. Whatsapp ended up being that other place). Though I'm also in groups on other Matrix instances.

The main annoyances I had with using the bridge until now are:

  1. I need to open the app every two weeks on my second phone (which tends to get lost when I need it).
  2. The time my server went out for a couple of days also made me unsure of self hosting a bridge. I don't mind if I can't see some support messages for a couple of days, but I do mind not being able to get texts from family.

Compared to just using the app it's a difficult proposition. But on the other hand I don't have anything proprietary installed on my phone and I'd like to keep it that way if possible.

There is technically a third option by hosting an iMessage bridge, but I don't have a spare Mac. And while my second phone is an iPhone, there is no documentation on how to bridge via a 64-bit iPhone. In this case however, there would be no two weeks access requirement.

I'd love to hear you guys' thoughts and maybe some other way to tackle this!

Cheers!

Edit: Thanks everyone for the help! I've heard some awesome suggestions. I opted to keep using the bridge. Apparently you don't need to open the app to refresh the biweekly timer, just run it in the backgroud. I happen to have a device that is on more than often enough for Whatsapp to refresh that timer in te background.

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[–] TheFool@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I used beeper for that because it enables you to choose between hosting the bridge on their server, hosting the bridge on your computer but using their homeserver which makes things way easier or just using the on device bridge in their app with no server (except iMessage because apple immediately patched every attempt of theirs so now you need a Mac to bridge it)

The WhatsApp issue that you have to open the original app every few days is unavoidable sadly.

[–] Lemmert@reddthat.com 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Yeah I thought about using it too. The two bridges are also developed by them. I wouldn't have minded using their app instead, but I don't have the Play Store on my phone (I'm on GOS). They don't offer a regularly updated apk on their site like Whatsapp does either.

Still thanks for the suggestion though!

[–] SpatchyIsOnline@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I wouldn't have minded using their app instead, but I don't have the Play Store on my phone (I'm on GOS)

Any reason why you aren't just using the Aurora store?

[–] Lemmert@reddthat.com 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Mainly because it's really difficult to make a Google account when they suspect you're a bot.

[–] SpatchyIsOnline@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sorry, I'm confused here, why do you need to make a Google account?

[–] Lemmert@reddthat.com 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Oh don't you need a Google account to get the apks on Aurora?

[–] SpatchyIsOnline@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No, you can use your own account if you like but the "default" usage is to log in anonymously

[–] Lemmert@reddthat.com 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Oh that's nice. I'll give beeper a spin then as well, thanks! You too daytonah!

[–] daytonah@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I am using e/os, it has something similar to aurora and like some one else said, ot gets apps anonymous. No sign in.