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Oh boy! So I came across a recent photo on social media of an ex who broke my heart 15 years ago. He looks like absolute shit now! Meanwhile, I may have a couple of fine lines and a few grays, but I look relatively the same and I’m in better shape than I was back then.
I know it shouldn’t, but it gave me such a massive boost in confidence because I’ve aged much more gracefully than he did. Serves him right for being a lying cheating dick! 😊
This reminds me when my ex tried to get back in touch with me. I loved him more than he loved me and I overlooked his dickish behaviour, anyway about 10 years later he messaged me out of the blue wanting me to get back in touch with him... It was very satisfying to not respond
Sometimes it feels good to be the tiniest bit petty!!
The guy was a hobosexual that took waaaayyyy too much advantage of my kindness and hospitality.
I have definitely upgraded and I’m allowing this petty to make me feel better 😊