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I guess there's a certain question of autonomy. There's a tension between, "I need help running my life" and "I know when something isn't helpful and can walk away." There are ways in which therapy can disempower you: it can teach you to ignore your instincts, paper over your concerns... there is a real risk that someone who just can´t handle anything about their life will be trapped in an unhelpful (or openly abusive) relationship for years, so I'm really hesitant to recommend it to people blindly with no caveats.
Any therapist telling you to "ignore your instincts" without diagnosing you with a relevant condition (e.g. PTSD, OCD) isn't worth their salt. And not all therapists are licensed to diagnose you, so you'd need to be referred to a potentially different professional.
It's like any other professional. You try stuff they suggest, and sometimes it doesn't work out or you simply want 2nd opinion on a matter. It's not perfect, but generally it helps.
Worst case, they waste a few hundred dollars and learn its not for them. I've wasted more money with worse things. I think the risk of getting "addicted to therapy" is much smaller than gambling or drugs.
What?
Therapists do not just make you feel OK with everything. They teach you skills, mental resiliency, many things. I feel you have a very warped view of what therapy actually is.
Can you directly quote what you are referring to? I don't find what you're replying to.