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A UK Member of Parliament recently suggested that there should be a Government minister for men which would presumably do similar things to the existsing minister for Women.

https://www.thelondoneconomic.com/news/reactions-pour-in-as-mp-renews-calls-for-official-minister-for-men-356501/

This has thrown up a series of heated discussions on social media about whether this is part of the 'backlash' against feminsm, or whether there is a legitimate need for wider support of men's issues.

As a man who believes that there are legitimate issues disproportionately affecting men which should be addressed, what I really want help in understanding is the opinion that men don't need any targetted support.

I don't want to start a big argument, but I do want to understand this perspective, because I have struggled to understand it before and I don't like feeling like I'm missing something.

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[โ€“] soviettaters@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How is supporting men's mental health and advocating for them in ways they are often overlooked (such as in single fatherhood) bad?

[โ€“] Trebuchet@lemm.ee -3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This is the same difference between Black Lives Matter and All Lives Matter. Nobody is saying that men should not be advocated for, but elevating the issue of men's rights to ministerial level does not help resolve the larger issue of the systemic disadvantage of women in society.

[โ€“] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 year ago

It's not supposed to, it's supposed to help issues specifically affecting men.

[โ€“] soviettaters@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're right, it doesn't. That's why there's a minister for women.

[โ€“] Trebuchet@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Who's responsibility includes reducing the disparity between men and women. Having a minister for men introduces parity in this regard, which therefore does nothing to advance the interest of women in a male dominated system