No they're not. They're fucking dumb and everyone reading this thread seems to think the same thing.

You're literally trying to say she touched him first. On a date.

From your perspective a partner would have the right to choke slam their partner if they surprised them with a hug because they touched them first.

From your perspective one person is not responsible from removing themselves from danger, they're responsible for hurting people to make a point and exert control.

You're stupid go drink whatever liquids are under your sink.