What do you mean by a lucky guess? I'm unclear what you mean. Also, you've made no case. If your case is "I believe I'm right, therefore I'm right", I genuinely hope the woman involved doesn't take your advice or share your worldview, because if so, she's going to be in trouble with the law.

From what I could tell, you are apologizing for gendered violence and promoting a sexist world view that removes women of agency when it comes to the use of force and violence when it comes to the escalation of use of violence.