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[-] Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 4 points 6 days ago

Ya, I worked at a place with 12 hour shifts for well over a decade, often 6 days a week. It was from 7 am to 7 pm day shift, 7 pm to 7 am night shift, and would alternate every two weeks.

It was good money but I missed a lot of my two kids growing up. I wish I could say that at least it got me ahead financially, but my ex spent money like it was going out of style. I probably would have been better off flipping burgers and staying close to home.

[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago

I found the same. My ex couldn't grasp me trying to establish a budget, her response was "There's always money in the account, why do we need to budget", I said " The reason there is always money there is I keep putting it there because you are extending into overdraft everyday".

I definetly found that working a lot meant I missed a lot with the kids, when I was off work my whole life was the kids because I knew we were missing moments.

But working OT and endless money also means you make convenience decisions, like: let's just grab $60 of pizza on the way home since we won't have time to prep dinner, meanwhile there's a full fridge of food.

Now that I'm on 40hour WFH, it means dinner can be made for under $5 because I'm home and can pre-simmer a sauce from scratch, or get something roasting ahead of time.

this post was submitted on 13 Sep 2026
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