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What terrifies men the most about homosexuality?
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I'm scared of appearing to be gay, because i went to school in the 90s. Being gay was the worst thing you could possibly be. If there was any evidence that could potentially point towards you being gay (wearing anything remotely pink. Accidentally listening to a girl band. Getting an ear pierced was trendy but one of the ears meant you're gay. The pitfalls are endless.)
I want to clarify that I enjoy seeing gay people. It feels like a little victory for mankind. This is a very learned fear. If you've never had your ass kicked my multiple people, all of whom could beat you 1v1 anyway, its hard to explain, it gets deeply instilled in you. I know I shouldn't touch fire. I know I shouldn't fall from a height. I know I shouldn't be seen to be possibly gay.
"Haha look at his purple shirt! GAYYY!!!"
Common quote from a guy I used to know