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What terrifies men the most about homosexuality?
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Its weird and nasty to think about, until you think of it like a typical relationship. They have to have chemistry, they have to mesh well, and plus it feels gross to imagine 2 people you personally find unattractive banging.
A lot of young gay men that initially think they were straight was because they imagined 2 old burly hairy dudes going at it, and got grossed out by it.
Once you think of it as guys you're age, similar situations, as the same "type" as women you like is usually when it starts to click for people who previously wouldn't describe themselves as gay or bi.