210
me_irl
(lemmy.nz)
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
this post was submitted on 03 Oct 2026
210 points (97.7% liked)
me_irl
8320 readers
1088 users here now
All posts need to have the same title: me_irl it is allowed to use an emoji instead of the underscore _
founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
The good relationship comes much easier once you've figured your shit out.
When does this figuring out of shit end though? I feel like the more I figure out, the more the mountain of unfigured out shit grows.
Well, at least enough that you're not relying on your partner to "fix you" or take care of you. It's ok to be broken (I will be my whole life) but my relationships were vastly different after a few years of solo living and learning to take care of myself, and soon enough I found my wife.