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[-] Ricaz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 day ago

Idk, sounds to me like they feel comfortable around you.

I have a few close female friends, one I even usually share a bed with on trips. I asked her why it's like this once and it boiled down to "you don't expect anything from me".

I do have a partner and usually hang out mostly with women, so maybe I'm just not attractive, who knows

[-] myyass@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

I mean looking back, I don't disagree. One of the girls would help me with random stuff. Another always wanted to take photos together and put them online, I said no thank you to that. I think that people have different interpretations of attraction. In a way I found being taught about ATP very attractive but I wasn't going to interject myself between her and my friend. So you probably have an attractiveness beyond a physical appearance.

You are a good dude. If you were fine with being an interloper you would have probably picked up on the vibe.

this post was submitted on 12 Oct 2026
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