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My GF uses AI
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this post was submitted on 21 Oct 2026
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It's AI, not heroin. Hating AI is great but shouldn't lead all the way to serious relationship trouble IMO, as long as she doesn't use LLMs to talk to you directly or something. You can try to understand why she uses it and how it helps her. You can also tell her it feels wrong to you or bothers you that her work is done with AI, or that you don't want to read it, but at the same time you can still accept that it's working for her. Dogma doesn't fair well in relationships
Nah, political views seem pretty important for relationships—like, where do you draw the line? Is racism okay? Is pro-capitalism fine? Is fascism tolerable?
Also, in my opinion, AI is akin to mind-altering drugs: there's withdrawl, pyschosis, dependency, et cetera. At best, it's comparable to caffine. At worst... well, people have ended their lives because of it.
I agree. I think it has the potential to cause impairment of thinking if left rampant. It’s like watching a religion take over.
The issue you have is now widening ideas on who the person you love is. It’s easy to say oh just seperate them from thier role, but it’s not that simple, once it’s in your head. If you said my partner has adopted a new religion and it is at odds of how we were, you would likely get more understanding.
Whilst it sounds crazy I think you have to look at hypothetical situations, what if she decided to disclose your data or identifiers to AI? Or what if you have a heated discussion and she chooses its decision over yours?
Is it simple a professional tool then or is it a crutch?
You're highly unlikely to date someone for a extended period of time and then suddenly learn they actually heavily Catholic or part of the Klan. Generally if you share some basic general interest you share broader interests like politics just because they are related. If I met a girl/guy fishing I shouldn't be surprised to see a rebel flag tramp stamp on the second date.
If you date someone for 3-6 months then suddenly you notice all the ww2 natzi medals, and marble busts of elon musk in his master bed room then you are also the hot mess.
Most of the things you're going to have disagreements about politically are minor and trivial. If you do that's just luck of the bag. No one can just start drawing moral standards and making lines in the sand for you and your relationship that's just insanity.
I think
would be the issue more than the AI usage in and of itself.
Why?
If your partner tells you they're going to do x and repeatedly does y instead, that's somewhere between inconsiderate and deceptive. That's not a good thing in a relationship and should be addressed.
What a shocking (for this platform)-ly helpful, mature, honest, and direct response! Absolutely.