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My GF uses AI (lemmy.zip)
submitted 3 days ago by ducktumn@lemmy.zip to c/fuck_ai@lemmy.world

Hi everyone. I'm a senior Computer Engineering student and my girlfriend is a senior Mechanical Engineering student.

She is caring, cute, clever and really thoughtful. I love everything about her. But the one thing that always bugs me out is the amount of AI she uses.

When we met 2 years ago the first topic we talked about was about AI and ever since that day I always mentioned her the advancements and dangers of AI. I said how there can't be ethical AI and any use of it is harmful.

She agrees with me every time and says she will decrease her usage but at the end she uses it still. Projects, reports, homeworks all go through the LLM. She shows me her work and I can't congratulate her without forcing myself because I know it's AI.

She has diagnosed ADHD and I think this might be one of the reasons but I still don't understand. She sometimes spends hours working. If she had spent that time with pen and paper she could've reached the same conclusions she did with AI but with more understanding of her work.

I don't want to upset her but also seeing someone this close to me do this is saddening to me. What should I do? Should I just ignore it?

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[-] DriftingLynx@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 days ago

Using it for school work is demonstrably not learning. In fact using an LLM is antithical to learning: it's cognitive offloading.

If she cares about actually learning she'd do her own school work.

That's the problem I see here... my 2¢

[-] architect@thelemmy.club -2 points 2 days ago

Now try saying that about audio books. See the hypocrisy in action.

[-] DriftingLynx@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

I could say that about audio books... but it wouldn't be true.

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[-] DietCanesSauce@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I have to disagree here.

If you listen to an audiobook, you still take in all the same info as you would reading the book yourself.

If you use AI to help you with a research paper you will always be offloading part of the task. Use it to gather your sources? You just offloaded the skills of looking for credible evidence to back up your claim. Use it to write the paper after doing the research yourself? You still offload the skill of crafting your arguments, word choice, persuasion, etc.

You are also taking a big risk assuming that the output of the clanker is correct as it usually doesn’t provide you sources to double check yourself.

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