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I had no idea! I’m only familiar with Teenage Anarchist and Thrash Unreal, which apparently came out before she came out. That’s awesome.
Don’t feel bad, I had no idea until seeing her in concert in 2014! It was a “Holy fuck, fuck yeah dude!” experience.
Yeah, her coming out was pretty big. Including her ex wife having to tell Rolling Stone that Laura's gender had nothing to do with the divorce. She later titled her (pretty good) autobiography a transphobic slur.
Transgender Dysphoria Blues was an amazing album as well, that really hits hard especially early in transition. And it's wild in retrospect that she put out The Ocean (song) before coming out. But in retrospect she's got a handful of songs from that era that are clearly dealing with her relationship with her gender.
Laura Jane Grace is a beautiful person. I love her music, both before and after she transitioned.
Favorite songs:
Laura Jane Grace is a legend for her history in the punk community.
Edit - fav songs:
You look like I need a drink
I’m an anarchist
How Low
Idk how I've never heard of this one before but it's giving early-2000's blink 182/the killers, 9/10 very solid!
She's awesome but aside from being a legend of modern punk she mostly got super well known for coming out as trans in like 2014ish
Transgender dysphoria blues is my favorite song.
Reinventing Axl Rose 🎧