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What's something that you were surprised to find out a lot of people hate? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Rinna@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

I’ve never been polyamorous but I have been a player before and a period during which I had lots and lots of casual sex with lots of different women actually gave me a better appreciation of women as individuals.

There’s something about not having one person be your everything that allows them to be a real person instead of a symbol.