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How can I have better social interactions?
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this post was submitted on 31 Oct 2026
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Something that I remember reading many years ago has stuck with me. In general, people like talking about themselves. Ask questions about what's going on in their lives. If they have pets ask about those. People love their pets. Ask about their family if they have one. The harder part may be that you need to show interest. If you want to connect to these people, try to get to know them to some degree. You don't have to know everything about them, but if some is married and has kids, get a pulse on the situation. If someone has a dog, try to remember that and ask about it. As a person with dogs, I could provide hours of stories and pictures.
Don't be political or share strong opinions, at least until you know your audience. Find out what interests they have them ask questions about that stuff. I know something about everyone on my team that I can talk about. Maybe not tons, but enough to get a conversation started that I can pivot on. When you find common ground, share something about yourself related to that.
I keep using dogs as an example, but half of my team has at least one dog. That's an easy ice breaker. From there you can pivot many directions.
Lol not me. I get super annoyed when someone asks personal questions.
Who are you? Why does that matter? Why do you want to know so much about my personal life? Narc? Go away.
Then this isn't the post for you. This person asked how be be more sociable, and that happens by talking and asking questions.
I might be their coworker
There's ways to break ice that are less intrusive than this.