You're not childfree if someone hasn't told you that you need therapy /s

But really, i have been told i needed therapy for my reasons of being childfree. Everyone has their own reasons and if you're going to scrutinize them then you're opening the door to be scrutinized yourself. Instead id rather us not judge each other's reasons for being childfree based on some legitimacy hierarchy.

You may think their reasons are stupid and devolve to self hatred but who are you to judge? Many people are scared on some level what bringing a child into this world would mean for both them and the child.