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Guys don't need to feel insecure to sleep with beautiful women. Its what everyone wants to do.
Comments like yours are typically coming from women.
speaking as a woman who fucks women:
if you're not an idiot its really easy to avoid the problematic ones who just want something from you. or enjoy your time with them without letting them take advantage.
I'm not so sure billionaire types know more that a handful of people who do not want something from them and even if they do they would recognize it, especially the ones who are CEOs of large companies, a group were sociopaths are far more common than amongst the general population.
Further, I bet their mindset is one of taking advantage of people offering them sex because of wanting something from them, and that they do it because they're selfish sociopath cunts.
I think the explanation that they're sociopaths whose relation to everybody around them is entirelly transactional and who thus will use attractive women for sex when they feel they can which given their fortune and positions of responsability is probably common enough (so, very much an entirelly objectifying mindset leveraging very steep power inbalances), is a much more likely explanation than "insecurities".
I've worked in Investment Banking at the mid-level, and even at that level there's already lots of sociopathy and psychopathy as well as disfunctionality around sexuality and the amounts of money sloshing around and being made by such people is far less than with CEOs of large publicly traded companies. Whilst these are not psychologically normal and healthy people, from what I've seen "insecurities" isn't usually their problem.
That's exactly the thing. Narcissists and psychopaths and sociopaths are not insecure at all. They are very confident in their abilities to get what they want by exploiting others.
Also we know that men who are insecure are not attractive to women at all.
So I think that myth needs to die. Women complain about mens behavior every time they can't benefit from that behavior. They want men they can control. The entire feminism movement is also based on trying to control men's behavior so it benefits women.
Its not about equal rights at all and we can see this in very feminist countries like Sweden where men are told to be feminine and that masculinity is toxic.
Hence, women in Sweden go for immigrant men more and more, since they haven't been completely brainwashed by the feminist movement. They can tell a women to shut up without feeling like they are attacking her. And that's actually what women wants, someone who doesn't bow down to them and let them run the entire relationship.