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[โ€“] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Morning hugs with my partner, very first thing when I wake up. I tend to curl up to them and stay there for at least 5 - 10 minutes before starting my day.
I'm an early bird, but they're a heavy sleeper so usually they don't mind :)

[โ€“] syl@programming.dev 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is honestly goals. I don't have a partner but I dream of this. This is better than sex in my opinion.

[โ€“] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I agree. If I had to choose between one or the other, I would choose hugs and cuddles without hesitation.
I hope youโ€™ll find your special someone soon.

[โ€“] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago

I'm the opposite. If we haven't had sex in a while cuddling is like hanging a big juicy steak in front of a starving person. It's just frustrating as hell. I guess I'm an all or nothing kind of guy when it comes to physical intimacy.