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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee -5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

As someone with autism, I’m here to say that it is actually the opposite of helpful.

People need challenges in order to grow. They need opportunities to fail.

Putting training wheels on sarcasm makes autistic people even further behind the social curve by depriving us of opportunities to fail.

Much like a sterile childhood environment has been scientifically proven to be a causal factor in developing allergies as an adult, I predict that science will eventually establish a causal link between lack of ambiguous communication during developmental years, and reduced intelligence in life.

Human society is so fucking hard to understand for an autistic person, and I really appreciate your looking out for me, but the struggle is worth it, and human culture is intricate and beautiful, and that’s why I chose this username.

Okay but lots of other autistic people I know really appreciate tone indicators so you cannot really speak for everyone. Not to mention, why does knowing that something was meant to be sarcastic hinder learning instead of essentially guessing?

[–] kitedemon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You misunderstand, this is from my own perspective as an autistic person. Plus, the lack of tone of voice over text can make communication harder, for everyone. It’s literally just a tool for communication, clearing up what you mean.

But that's the point of sarcasm. Jonathan Swift got lots of death threats by mail after writing "A Modest Proposal," and he expected it! If someone doesn't want to risk being misunderstood, they should not write the opposite of what they mean.

[–] themajesticdodo@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How ever did autistic people survive before the internet to help them cope?

[–] starman2112@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I mean a lot of neurodivergent people literally didn't survive until a few decades ago

[–] themajesticdodo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Well that's a massively gross exaggeration.