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It's almost impossible to deny being an alcoholic without sounding like an alcoholic (lemmy.world)
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[โ€“] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If someone has problem x but doesn't want others to know about it, how would they behave?

If someone didn't have problem x and didn't want others to think they did, how would they behave?

And most importantly, how would you differentiate between the two cases? Don't just stop after the first question.

[โ€“] habanhero@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 months ago

In both cases I think they would deny it.

I don't have a solution for the 2nd situation (and I don't think anyone really does), this is more of a social problem. The point I'm making is that in the first scenario there is a clear pattern of denial for those who need help.

In terms of how you differeniate it, my understanding is if the behavior is impacting your life negatively then you would seek help. But I'm not an expert and that's not a problem we are solving here.