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Yes. Forums are social media. The mental gymnastics....
Is it my imagination or do you think people that don't consider forums to be social media are doing it out of denial, as if they consider social media to be inferior and they want to be the superior ones without social media, but by encountering you telling them these ugly truths, they deny and defend themselves almost in a tantrum?
Because that may happen with a person or two, but no, many people don't have problems having social media, just don't consider Lemmy a social media for various reasons (e.g. not used with a real name, they do not personally message from here, etc.). If their criteria is wrong or right, I don't know. I do consider this a social media, but it's open to discussion.
It'd be helpful if you stop looking at situations as if they were the crying wojak (them) vs chad wojak (you) because that's not how we all work.
It's not mental gymnastics. My reasoning is straight forward, and I disagree.