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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by pol@infosec.pub to c/cat@lemmy.world
 

Hey,

I recently lost my furry friend... It was a tough period and I'm still sad, even if time is healing slowly.

It's the first time I had to deal with such a situation where I have to decide when to go to the vet for the final journey... It was so hard....

Today I can talk about it without getting too emotional. I've also written a blog post on my website to express what I was feeling about that.

People are telling me to adopt another one, but to be honest, I don't feel like I can do it now... Maybe it will come back, I don't know.

All I can say is that it was one of the hardest thing to endure. We love so much those small little animals... Maybe too much.

And you, how have you dealt with such situation? Did you end up getting another one at some point?

Edit: I spent this morning going through each of your messages individually. Thank you so much for sharing your stories and advice. I'm at a loss for words, except to express my heartfelt THANK YOU for your kindness and support. One phrase from your comments deeply resonated with me: "Grief is the price to pay for love." How profoundly true that is... I believe our Izumi lived a joyful life, and he brought us joy "every. single. day. of. his. little. life." Making the decision to end suffering is incredibly difficult, but I believe it's a part of being a responsible pet owner. In such moments, selflessness, not selfishness, is the choice to do.

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[–] paddythegeek@lemmy.ca 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I feel for you. We have always had a lot of pets (4 cats, 2 dogs atm) and dealing with their end of life stage is heartbreaking every time. Just grieve your loss however you need to.

We always take comfort in knowing how much our departed friends brought to our lives, and, particularly for our rescues, how much love and care we were able to give them. Our relationships with them are a gift.

Take good care and trust that you will know if and when the time is right for another one in your life.

[–] pol@infosec.pub 3 points 10 months ago
[–] pol@infosec.pub 1 points 10 months ago

Our relationships with them are a gift.

That's so true... Izumi impressed me every single day of his life, and I really consider my time with him as a gift.

Thanks for your kind words, much appreciated.