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Despite the triggering headline, this is a pretty good article that talks about how younger men are falling for this horseshit

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[–] gapbetweenus@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Sure, everyone is free to chose to be ignorant. Nothing I can do about it. But it's sure funny that after days talking with me - that is your take away.

[–] bouh@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

You know what's funny? I can say exactly the same about you. I think you forgot what the conversation was even about.

[–] gapbetweenus@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

If you feel like it sure. But than again I spend quite some time trying to explain my point and you spend that time not engaging with what I say. You think you are asking a simple question and that progressives have nothing to offer as a solution. But when people try to explain to you that it's not that simple and progressives have indeed solutions to offer, but those are complex - you just ignore everything.

But than what are you doing here if you think progressives have nothing to offer for men? Seems like you are wasting your time here.

[–] bouh@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

You are twisting my words. I understand what you're saying. But you refuse to understand what I am saying. Just because I don't say "yes you are right and I am wrong" doesn't mean I don't understand you. You're repeating yourself since the beginning.

But the best: you repeat ad nauseam how the solutions exist but are complex, yet you refuse to even try to give the beginning of one to the question I ask. With all the messages spent repeating how complex it is, you could at least have the beginning of something tangible.

[–] gapbetweenus@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago

I didn't say you don't understand, I said you don't engage. Thanks for illustrating.