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What do you look for most in a partner (physically and personality wise) (burggit.moe)
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For me, the most important physical attributes would be a nice face (easy on the eyes) and ideally large breasts.

Personality wise, what I look for most is someone who is reasonable. Someone I can talk to about pretty much anything without fear of judgement or rash accusations.

I'm married, so I'm obviously not looking for a partner, but I thought this would be an interesting question, so I thought I'd ask.

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[–] LongerDonger@burggit.moe 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd absolutely have to find them attractive. I know people can look past physical attributes if their partner's personality is great, and that's fine, I just don't feel like I can do that. To me, romance (and sex, of course) is a pretty big part of a relationship, and if I can't look at her and go "wow she's cute" (or something along those lines), then it just isn't going to work for me.

She should also need to have her own identity. Not gender identity, fuck that, I mean she's her own person with her own goals and opinions etc. Someone who I can actually talk to and joke around and hang out with, someone who fits in with my friend group, not just with me.

And if I had to be shallow and pick a physical attribute or two: slim body, and breast shape >>>>> breast size. They can be the size of space hoppers or look like two skittles on an ironing board, as long as the shape is good then I'm happy!

[–] KusaMower@burggit.moe 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

two skittles on an ironing board

What kind of shape fits this description? Any examples that's not just flat? Besides that, I think among all the comments in here, I agree with yours the most with the exception of the last paragraph.

[–] LongerDonger@burggit.moe 1 points 1 year ago

I meant that the size doesn't matter to me as long as the shape is good. They can be nonexistent or they can be massive, as long as they have a nice shape then I like them.

Sorry if my wording was confusing!