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How do you do that unintentionally?? Did you just blurt it out? Did she remove the mask and you couldn't hold in an "eugh"? I must know!
It went something like:
- You had never seen me without it, right?
- No, you look older
(Brief awkward silence)
- I feared you would say that
- (freezes)
Then she told me she is insecure about that, I think she is actually like 3 years older than most of her classmates and some mock her because of that.
I didnโt think she was ugly, to me I was just pointing something out, and only realized I probably insulted her until days later. And Iโm pretty sure I said more stupid things, if you want iโll try to remember.
Also, if something reads weird, my native language is not english.
Visibly and audibly throw up in your mouth after she removes the mask.
Probably something along the lines of "you look better with the mask on!"
i concur. i too wanna know.
"That mask really suits you"
"You can keep your mask on, I actually prefer that"