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[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

BDSM != sex, even if the two are heavily connected in a lot of people's minds. I've played with both tops and bottoms that were ace/het/LGBT, and there was not anything sexual there. Hell, one of my fave experiences was bottoming for a lesbian top who enjoyed beating on dudes.

BDSM is not inherently sexual, even if there can be a lot of sexuality involved.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

am lesbian who enjoys beating on dudes (impact play w/ anyone tbh)

shoutout to kinky guys who bottom for domme lezzies but still respect their sexuality :]

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

10000%

I love getting beat by confident women (presenting people), and never expect anything more than that. Being somewhat demi helps a lot with that aspect, but it's just basic respect for an ephemeral play partner in my mind.