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Hugs and happy birthday.
Did you discuss with him a plan on talking each day so you wouldn't feel anxious?
Because I don't see his actions as being unreasonable, he needs to study and he told you.
Like I said before, what would you have done in the days when people didn't have phones or what would you do if your BF was in the military?
You would have to trust him and you would have to learn to cope with anxiety, even learn how not to be anxious.
Time to give him the flick. You are the one doing all the emotional labour here - he's coasting and exploiting your anxieties. He has time to goof off with mates, but can't spend 15 seconds texting you. Time to call it quits and move on.