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Anon has nerdy hobbies (sh.itjust.works)

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[–] Zink@programming.dev 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I’d say “women” in a professional setting, but among friends I don’t see it as an offensive thing. It’s just an informal or casual thing. I’m a guy, and the group of women often includes my wife. But it’s said in a friendly tone.

I think singular vs plural matters too. I would say “good night girls” to a couple of friends leaving, but not “good night girl” to one friend leaving.

[–] mugthol@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

If you say "boys and girls" that's ok imo, but saying "men and girls" is probably condescending again

[–] Zink@programming.dev 2 points 6 months ago

I agree with that amendment. It’s about context just as much as tone and intent.