The number of examples I have seen of people being told to shut up about their lived experiences with sexual abuse in the past 24 hours on this platform is deeply disturbing.
I am calling on y’all to take a deep breath and listen to women for once. There is a time and place for tone policing and it’s never the very minute a woman speaks up.
It's funny that you assumed that "enough people told me that" from one instance that this reminded me of. I didn't victim blame them for experiencing sexism. I said that accusing innocent people who they've never interacted with and generalizing statements is ridiculous. Maybe be more specific on how my comment was "problematic" instead of some vague doublespeak.
I hope you don't mind me joining the conversation, but I just wanted to say that I understand and validate your experience and emotions. It's really terrible to go through something like that, and I don't appreciate the other commenter minimizing your experience.
One thing that isn't always acknowledged is that the patriarchy can negatively impact everyone, regardless of gender. Your story is a clear example of this. Feminism, as it works to dismantle the patriarchy, can ultimately benefit and liberate men as well.
If you haven't already, I suggest checking out !mensliberation@lemmy.ca. I'm not very active there, but I've seen some really positive conversations happening. Feel free to give it a try if you're interested - you might find some value there. And of course, you're always welcome to stay here in 196 as well 💙🦈.