alt text: a tweet within a tweet. "coworker asked me my pronouns and I said 'they/them but I'm at work right now so it's whatever' and then she came up to me later and said 'this is you'" (showing a tweet that says) i'm probably nonbinary but i have a job so idrc about that rn
But der/dem is male
Der/das?
Using das is like calling people it. So usually very insulting.
People don't want to be a powerful entity that can shapeshift into anything it wants?
They prefer to be a disembodied hand that comes out of a box.