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According to an employee at the restaurant, the supposed priest urged employees to “get the sins out.”

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[–] solidgrue@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Objectively, what is the difference between a "real priest" and a "fake priest?"

[–] Flaky_Fish69@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

sanctioning by some governing religious authority. Like the Catholic church.

alternatively, this guy wasn't a cleric at all and only hired to pretend to be one. from the article it sounds like he was basically a paid actor.

[–] solidgrue@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

You can send $65 to the Unitarians to get a card that entitles you to officiate weddings and administer rites. I did, and I have. Heck, for a beer I'll listen to your sins and suggest you a few more while I tell you it's OK not to stress about it.

How is that any different? Asking for my atheist friends.

[–] Flaky_Fish69@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

it's "Official".
I mean, I get it. (particularly because I'm an atheist myself). but like Pretty sure the guy was literally just a paid actor trying to get people to nark on themselves. the employer is insane, though.

[–] Zorque@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

There's an authority that "official" priests answer to. They can face punitive action for breaking rules set forth by their established body... just like any other job.

Sure, you got a certificate that says you can do a thing... but you don't have a job because of that. If you did get a job from that, it would be somewhat similar, but it's not.

[–] LifeInOregon@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

In many cases, a priest, minister, or pastor has received education in counseling, theology, and ministerial care. While one might discount the necessity of theological education, a good seminary will ensure that there is a foundation from which emotional support might be offered.

[–] Maeve@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As in “Unitarian Universalist?” That seems sketchy, for them.

[–] solidgrue@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I got the card, tho. I did weddings!

[–] Maeve@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I’m saying there are different religions/sects that people consistent with Unitarian.

[–] kill@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Flaky_Fish69 what if they're protestant and have no religious authority? i'm guessing the "religious authority" would be "the will of the people"? idk, maybe if the restaurant employees they could command the Priest title onto this guy

[–] Flaky_Fish69@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The vast majority of denominations have a body that decides what they as a denomination believe.

Kind of what makes them a denomination. Unitarians are weird in that they specifically don’t give a damn.

[–] Maeve@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Which is good. Their basic tenants, as far as I can recall, are “be kind, be responsible, everyone messes up sometimes.” It’s been a very long time since I attended a service, there are none in my corner of the world. Lots and lots of Baptists, Southern Baptists and Methodists that are breaking from the umc, though.

[–] Maeve@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

And a poor one, at that. They get $2000 each – after lawyer fees? And back wages.

[–] baseless_discourse@mander.xyz 6 points 1 year ago

I think in this case, it is because:

  1. The priest is not associated with any official church
  2. The priest is obviously hired by the employer to spy on employees.
[–] kestrel7@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm an atheist -- but I think there's a real ethical difference between intellectually honest true believing priests, and charlatans/predators who are cynically taking advantage of the trust some people put in the position. And it seems like this article is talking about the latter.

[–] Deceptichum@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah with the real believers there is no chance for redemption, they’ll always be idiots.

I’ll take the fakes preying on idiots over the idiots themselves any day.

[–] snailwizard@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The difference isn’t just that one is Some Guy and one is Some Guy Who Went To Seminary, the difference is that confessions are supposed to be kept confidential (between the person, their priest, and arguably God), not “confidential” (between the person and the priest, who then rats them out to the boss.)

[–] Mr_Figtree@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, a real priest understands that he is expected to die rather than reveal anything he heard in confession, while this guy was passing everything along to the boss.

[–] DeadNinja@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

None, AFAIK.

[–] Frog-Brawler@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Huh... so were the employees told that their restaurant was also a church? They're splitting a pool of $70k in damages? What were the damages exactly? "I told a fake priest stuff." That's damages? Sure, there's fraud... but damages? I thought going to confession was free.

Sorry, I guess I have more questions than answers after reading that article.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I think a lot of the money is due to this:

"Investigators said the restaurant denied overtime pay to employees and illegally paid managers from the employee tip pool. The employers threatened employees with retaliation and immigration-related consequences for cooperating with investigators and fired one worker they believed had complained to the Labor Department."