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[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@lemmy.world 76 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Maybe next time leave the ladder behind instead of taking it with you.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

The wealthier Boomers left behind millions of tiny little ladders specifically for their kids to climb.

The poorer Boomers died before hitting retirement age, or died in debt, or bankrupted themselves paying for end-of-life health care, or got scammed or otherwise denuded of their accumulated wealth.

Incidentally, its the wealthier Boomers who continue to set national policy from the board rooms and lobbying offices established by their own parents and grandparents. Meanwhile the poorer and more isolated Boomers are left to drown in their own poverty, ineffectually raging at the collapse of neighborhoods and the destitution of their pension funds and the deterioration of their suburban homes, unless their children and grandchildren are able to help them out at the end of their days.

Folks like to pretend this is one generation pitted against another. But its selection bias. The only members of the Boomer generation you hear from are the ones that came out on top. The rest have been killed in the wars or poisoned by industrial waste and lead pollution or foreclosed into homelessness to die on the streets or confined to digital communities like Facebook where they're drowned out by waves of misinformation accounts. Legions of dead Boomers never got to decide how the current generations live. They were burned up and thrown out, just like the current generation of bourgeois GenXers and Millennials and Zoomers plan to do with the rest of us.

[–] Dkarma@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

They all came out on top. Even the poorest boomer right now today living in the street had a better shot at the American dream than all but the most lucky of youth right now.

Yes some fucked up or got screwed over but as a vast majority even these people supported and continue to support the same people who have put them there in the first place.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

Even the poorest boomer right now today living in the street had a better shot at the American dream

Trying to explain to a sharecropper born in 1945 and dead from cholera or smallpox in 1965 that he had just as good a shot at the "American Dream" as someone born after modern sanitation, public education, and highway mass transit was installed in their municipality forty years later.

But I can't, because that sharecropper was illiterate and also dead.

[–] circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 1 day ago

Boomers should have thought of the shareholders.

That is, the kids they fucked over with their bullshit ideas and absolute misunderstanding of the world they created.

I'd love to be able to speak with my parents again, but (and I never thought I would ever say this, if you had asked me 10 years ago) I need to see some heads popping out of asses.

[–] Kalysta@lemm.ee 21 points 2 days ago

Aww. Maybe if they didn’t spend their days treating their kids like their bank accounts and actually voted to help them afford things like housing and health care they’d have grandkids.

Instead they supported ghouls like trump and clinton instead of the guy who wanted to give everybody health care!

[–] bizzle@lemmy.world 39 points 2 days ago

Lmfao thanks for ruining our whole society, boomers. Reap what you've sowed.

[–] BigBenis@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

"You should have kids so you'll have someone who will take care of you when you're older."

Bruh, I'm not subjecting a person to this godforsaken world so I can guilt trip them into babysitting me when I'm old and senile.

as someone who's parents' retirement plan was that - I absolutely agree. There's no way anyone should subject their kids to that level of guilt and stress.

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[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 85 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Told my mom if she wants grandkids she better stop voting for conservatives. Didn't work, and a deal's a deal.

[–] InverseParallax@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago

I mean, she's a boomer, if she said she had I still wouldn't trust her.

Boomers: "Reality can be anything I want."

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[–] SSJMarx@lemm.ee 15 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

having a baby costs as much as a ~~decent used car~~ luxury automobile

that'd do it.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

I own two used cars and, after inflation, both of them combined cost me less than the birth of my first kid.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Used? After 20 years children cost well above half a mil. When you factor in all of the food, clothing, sitters, school, trips, and of course college, you've set yourself back by quite a bit

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[–] nimomycelium@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The diameter of that condom is huge....

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[–] AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today 207 points 3 days ago (6 children)

In another timeline where boomers didn't destroy the housing market, didn't ignore climate change, and didn't continue to vote for regressive policies, maybe they'd have grandchildren.

[–] theacharnian@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 days ago

At some point, us millennials need to also start taking that responsibility. Our oldest cohort is definitely at an age where we are starting to take over power. We won't be able to blame boomers for shit for long.

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[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 174 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Young folks have been priced out of housing & healthcare, you can be fired from your job on a whim, food is astronomically expensive, the political climate is tense, your basic human rights could be rescinded at any time, the future of the planet is being murdered by shitty capitalists with 0 regard for human life....

I mean, who wouldn't want to bring a child into this world right now?

Eat shit.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 73 points 3 days ago (12 children)

I'm hunting for a new job for the second time in less than a year, and I'm honestly a skilled professional with over 10 years of experience, with a lot of proof that I do great work. The labor market is stupid right now, just down right stupid. Full of executives searching for short term profits rather than anyone wanting to actually run a company well. That's alone is a huge reason, on top of everything else. I don't even know if I'll have stable employment, and that means I don't know if I'll have stable health insurance - so genuinely what are any actual incentives to my generation to have kids? Literally are there any beyond just "you have a kid now"

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[–] Microplasticbrain@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I made a nextdoor account recently for my small business and one of the first posts I see is boomers decrying the closure of a small prop leaded plane toy airport closing to make way for apartments.

Wah traffic, Wah my homes value, Wah crime rates.

These people are fucking obsolete.

We have a new multi-block set of apartments going up in the suburb near me that they're doing the same about. It's going to ruin the town! It's going to lower property values! Won't someone think of the children?!

It was parking lots. It was just parking lots before. It was a place for commuters to drop their car and go into the city. I can't even with these people. The best part is that those apartments will probably bring in more tax revenue than their entire single-family subdivision!

[–] NutWrench@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Way to focus, Wall Street Journal. We can always count on you for in-depth journalism

/s

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[–] DarkSpectrum@lemmy.world 69 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Maybe they shouldn't horde and partition their wealth from their children and do everything possible to ensure every penny is spent before death.

[–] Fuzzy_Red_Panda@lemm.ee 21 points 2 days ago

You're not wrong, but this is more of a class issue than a generational issue, although in this case they certainly intersect. My boomer parents don't have any money; they got screwed over by the 1% just like the rest of us.

[–] Wiz@midwest.social 95 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Once again Gen-X is ignored. It's Gen-X hitting grandparenting age.

My two kids probably won't be parents, and I'm ok with that. I want them to be happy more than I want to enjoy grandkids. Whatever they choose, I'll be happy with.

I felt pressure from Boomer parents to have kids, and I didn't want to do the same to my kids. That's a hard nope.

Once again Gen-X is ignored.

I will maintain, as I always do, that getting lumped in with the wrong group and ignored is the most Gen-X thing going right now.

With that, I conclude: whatever ::eye roll::.

[–] criticon@lemmy.ca 47 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Seems like old = boomers and young = millennials for journalist and a lot of people

[–] thatKamGuy@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 days ago

People are having kids later in life, and the youngest millennials are only ~29.

Millennials are predominantly the children of Boomers, so that’s why these two generations are basing singled out.

Gen-X were called the a Baby Bust generation for a reason; there aren’t enough of them around in order to swap population metrics compared to what came directly before and after.

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[–] unrelatedkeg@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 2 days ago

For some reason I'm not surprised about Facebook being explicitly boomer-centric

[–] buzz86us@lemmy.world 66 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Make college and homes unobtainable.. You get what you get and you don't get upset.

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[–] Seraph@fedia.io 66 points 3 days ago

"Oh no it's the consequences of my own actions!"

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