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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 12 points 6 hours ago

School shootings Kids safety trainings for school shootings Guns everywhere Two party political system Rampant racism Prison slavery Everything about its police force Unaffordable medical system combined with absolute shit medical insurance I can go on for a while

[–] anzo@programming.dev 40 points 10 hours ago (9 children)

Sorry to be honest, but this is my view...

Voting between two parties, and then getting whatever the "electors" pick. All the while, thinking they live under the biggest democracy of the world.

Having all sorts of inhuman behaviors, like robbing childs from immigrants.

Child marriage.

Having lots of weapons in the country but all wars outside.

Mmm.. What else? Ah, prisoners are slaves.

[–] mctoasterson@reddthat.com 1 points 5 hours ago

Lots of things about US democracy are vaporware. The two-party paradigm and candidate selection in particular are a joke. Repubs various state party orgs eliminated any real primary challenge to Trump. Democrats spiked any meaningful primary challenges to Biden and then installed a replacement who received zero primary votes.

Then we get to "choose" between these arbitrary figures who were selected by elites and nobody really likes.

[–] Mohaim@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Plenty of Americans find those things "weird". Myself, for instance.

It's hard to affect change with just the two corrupt parties, with one being center-right and the other being far-right, and a voting system that keeps it that way. At least ranked-choice voting for some elections (reducing the pressure maintaining the two-party system) is up for a vote in my state soon.

Edit: affect (v.)/effect (n.)

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

I never do random drive by grammar replies, but since you put it in your edit: affect is a verb and effect is a noun usually but the way you used it needs the verb form of effect, meaning "to bring something into being/existence". So essentially you're saying it's difficult to create change in the two parties.

Note that affect can also be a noun (and is pronounced differently than the verb, with the emphasis on the first syllable), referring to someone's demeanor. You normally see it when talking about psychology.

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[–] gondwana@feddit.org 24 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I noticed too many churches in Texas.

[–] Overshoot2648@lemm.ee 2 points 5 hours ago

Wait till you get to Utah

[–] Anderenortsfalsch@discuss.tchncs.de 47 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

German, only having been there once some years ago, so no idea if it still is that way:

Not knowing what I will have to pay in the grocery store until the cashier tells me what to pay. Here the price on the shelf is THE price. I might have a voucher that reduces the price in the end, but nothing is ever added only subtracted, all prices on the shelf are easily comparable, because no matter the weight of one package there is also given the price of 1kg or 100 g for everything.

No kids on playing grounds without parents standing around. No kids just playing on the side walk (often there is no side walk anyway), no kids walking to school. It made me aware of how much freedom kids have in Germany, how independent even 6 y.o. are in Germany compared to kids in the US. They walk to to school alone or use public transport alone, they buy groceries alone, they visit friends by foot or public transport, three y.o. already having a bike and cycling besides their parents to kindergarden...

On the other hand seeing so many very young people having a job, like a really hard job for many hours besides school. It broke my heart, they should be free to be young and having all the time, working comes fast enough and goes on forever. Also I saw very old people doing jobs that should be able to retire because you could see them being in pain and barely able to function, definitely not a "choice" for them.

The amount of medication, especially pain medication, people take in the US compared to Germany and how much of it is freely available while it is needing a subscription from a doctor here. Every time I was feeling unwell I was offered pills that I found to be numbingly strong and switching my brain off? Hard to explain. I found them scary, but was told that they take them on a daily basis and they are harmless ... nope.

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 6 points 10 hours ago

The children thing varies with region, and had become more pronounced in recent years.

When I was a kid I walked to the bus stop, played outside with a lot of freedom, etc. The rule for most kids was to go home when the street lights came on, and there was usually a border you weren't allowed to cross - for me it was a road with a lot of speeders and crazy drivers.

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[–] butsbutts@lemmy.ml 18 points 11 hours ago (2 children)
[–] Overshoot2648@lemm.ee 3 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

I will defend this to my death. I don't want to get my feet out at your house. I find it crazy that people want me to strip off an article of of clothing and I'm the rude one for not doing it. Also carpet is an abomination. Wood or laminate flooring is way better and you can put a rug on it if it's cold.

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

Socks is feet out? Wouldn't that also mean t-shirt is shirtless?

[–] chillBurner@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I find it crazy that people want me to strip off an article of of clothing and I’m the rude one for not doing it.

Get yer muddy, snowy shoes off my fucking floor or I will use castle doctrine to legally force you out

I'll give you some authorized home flip flops if you feel uncomfortable, aight?

Also carpet is an abomination.

Agreed tho if its everywhere... Wood is good

[–] Phoonzang@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

.... and then having carpet everywhere. Sometimes even kitchen and bathroom.

[–] sweetpotato@lemmy.ml 61 points 15 hours ago (7 children)

Your urban planning. Your cities are unwalkable, the scenery makes me depressed af, everything is scaled up for cars, even restaurants are for cars, the highways are huge, all I can see is tar. I don't know how you can live like that.

[–] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago

I don’t know how you can live like that.

We don't, we develop mental health issues and our bodies get crippled in the process too.

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