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I know and can accept the response that say I should register to X site if I want more activity. I do plan to, least with Reddit, just biding some time before I make yet the 20th disposable e-mail and probably the 100th account before it gets banned again if I cross a glass person. Glass person being someone who's so fragile on opinions and things that they'll scream 'BAN THEM BAN THEM!'.

I've been on KBin Social, Lemmy World (least 2 dedicated accounts), KBin Run, Mastodon, Blue Sky .etc

And I'd stay for a good while but I also found myself bored immediately. I check for questions to answer, it's the same questions I've seen days and weeks prior. I check around for things that are reported and they'll be hours old and some of them can be years old.

I love the idea of the Fediverse, I like some of the features that are implemented. Especially when you do ask questions on here and you're allowed to expand on it. Unlike AskReddit for example, they don't really like that and will remove your post because explaining what your question is about and backing it with an example is just unacceptable to them.

I don't know. 43,000+ people sounds a lot on paper, but in practice, it feels like you're dealing with 50 people at any given day.

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[โ€“] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yes and no.

Yes, I wish the fediverse would become more adopted by the general public because it will continues to improve.

No, because people are stupid assholes

[โ€“] RandomStickman@fedia.io 14 points 2 days ago

Personally I don't find a huge difference with reddit and threadiverse, at least for larger subs. Sure, on paper there are hundreds of comments, but most are the same tired decade old memes. You can predict what the comment sections are gonna be like from the title alone. At worst you get similar comments here, but you don't have to dig through hundreds of comments before finding something worthwhile.

Speaking personally, while I am here, my participation in Lemmy is lacklustre at best; same with Mastodon. I got burnt out from social media and the years from 2016 - 2024 have really ruined my enthusiasm. I think maybe a lot are in the same boat. Maybe we'll see more people come out of the "shields up, dark times overload" in a year or so... and maybe it will take longer.

[โ€“] communism@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yes, I still moderate a subreddit which is a support group for a particular surgery. There isn't such a community on the fediverse and the group of people who need this surgery seem to be few in number here too. (Won't be any more specific about the nature of the subreddit or surgery for privacy reasons, before anyone asks)

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register on X site

No, not that one.

[โ€“] intensely_human@lemm.ee 7 points 2 days ago

I literally do not care about getting more members. It is not on my radar at all as a goal or desirable thing or objective.

[โ€“] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

No.

People are the worst.

[โ€“] Jomega@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Absolutely. There's just fuck all to do here. I used reddit for fan communities a lot, and most of them stayed behind. (Unless you're a trekkie I guess. Then you're set.)

[โ€“] Upsidedownturtle@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

Nearly every niche community I've joined has essentially died due to not having the critical mass of users to support that community. Hell, even look at the large states like California or Texas: they're communities with only a few hundred active users and maybe a couple thousand joined. Feels like the lemmy is mostly us politics, star trek, Germans, and memes.

[โ€“] Blaze@feddit.org 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Which niches were they?

Some like !homebrewing@sopuli.xyz and !homeimprovement@lemmy.world are quite active

!newcommunities@lemmy.world has several threads with different active communities on different topics

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[โ€“] Blaze@feddit.org 3 points 2 days ago

!newcommunities@lemmy.world has several threads with different active communities on different topics

[โ€“] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I mean, you are on a site built and maintained by Communists along Communist principles, there are going to be Communists.

Reddit already exists for liberals.

[โ€“] Jomega@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I didn't say anything about communists. I said I missed being able to interact with people who shared my hobbies. I just want to ~~grill~~ talk about cartoons and video games.

Also, I was sold on Lemmy because they told me it was an user owned alternative to reddit, which was going tits up at the time. "It's a communist website." Is not what they told me to get me over here.

[โ€“] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I didn't say anything about communists

What did you mean by the word "tankie?" Liberals?

Either way, it's about finding a good instance and sticking with it, not just going with the largest and most boring instance.

Edit: misread "trekkie" as "tankie!" My bad lol

[โ€“] Edie@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Trekkie, star trek. Not tankie.

[โ€“] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Oof, misread that, thanks

[โ€“] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The "threadiverse" (i.e. lemmy-compatible communities), yeah. There are still many topics that I would find interesting to discuss, but that nobody talks about here; to the extent that there are communities for them, they get very little activity.

The microblogging fediverse (mastodon-compatible), I think, is popular enough by now, I have no real desire to see even more activity there, can hardly keep up with what I'm currently following there and currently tend to unfollow more accounts than I start following.

[โ€“] Blaze@feddit.org 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

There are still many topics that I would find interesting to discuss, but that nobody talks about here;

Which ones are those?

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[โ€“] Num10ck@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i looked through mastodon and it seemed like everyone was just talking at each other instead if discussions. its worse than linkedin.

Mastodon is mainly a way to get updates from news sites, blogs, etc.

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