Visited mum for a few hours. She's in good hands.. those nurses at the eye and ear are really caring.
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just want to say thanks to everyone for the support yesterday regarding mum's fall. truly is a great community here.
She'll be home tm or the next so that's a good thing.
I didnβt see that, best of luck to your mum
Ted is scaring me.
Bums against the wall I wouldn't trust that
ha ha, tomorrow he gets a sedative so I can remove his dags without him biting me , fun times
Ted is spaced out. All knots and dags have been removed and he's been brushed nicely.
close up of Ted seeing magic stars
This is inspirational. My goal for tonight is to emulate this level is consciousness. Fingers crossed
hehe ted never stood a chance with them dags and drugs.
sigh Really cannot complain.
What a beautiful little corner of the internet this space is. Thank you for all of the love and support lately, I really appreciate it and will absolutely keep passing it on and lifting you wonderful people up where I can!
Whoever said salmon sushi was the best, I wholeheartedly agree :)
yes, it is good π₯
I'm glad I talked myself into the gym.
Incoming vent:
Birthday being next week, it's a real rough time to be honest. I can't help but think about how I don't have any family to spend time with. I know I'm not the only one in this position, but still feels bad.
When I was unemployed, I lost a couple of really close friends who I usually hang out with, but I'm grateful for the people in my life that I do have.
It sounds funny, but I've kinda felt like a stray human since I was young.
Things could always be worse, and I try to keep that in mind. I just have moments of weakness where I wish for things that seem so out of grasp.
/end vent
We'll be here!
Also, yes people may have it worse, but it's a very human thing to want to satisfy our need for connection and belonging. It is not weak.
It'll be okay, the birthday sads are real. You belong, and I'll be coming to celebrate. We can make our own families :D
Does anyone know how long you're allowed to stretch out your turning 40 mid life crisis? I'm down to less than 23 hours until that awful meaningless day but still kinda wanna push it out a little longer.
Ummmm. I've just turned 45 and still in the midst..... but I'm also embracing my inner Cat Lady. And I've just had 2 weeks off work, and can wholeheartedly agree that working sucks but I like stuff, and stuff costs money.
I generally prefer to condense my mid life crises into a short but intense period of reading and planning. As I get a heads up from my older sister reaching significant milestones a few years before I do any crisis is over before the applicable birthdate.
I don't think I had much of a crisis at 40 though, it was more just a short-lived "gosh, when did I get so old!" feeling. 50 was much bigger and led to some major introspection and mapping out of life goals and plans. It probably took a couple of years to get through that. But I started early, so I'm pretty much done even though I have another year before I actually get to 50 myself.
It was my birthday today, headed down to Ballarat to spend it with family. Replacement V/Line coaches did my head in though.
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Richmond is pretty good. I think Abbotsford might be better. Loving my time in Melbs
in non pooh news, got a wild hair up my arse yesterday and ripped up half the backyard paving. His Lordship toppled the rest this arvo (I left it for him to go SMASHY SMASHY with the sledge, he so rarely gets to)
IN MY DEFENSE itβs a pathway weβre gonna replace anyway because 1) itβs too narrow for my garden trolleys and 2) the bloody thingβs subsided to the point where itβs at a 40 degree angle and 3) I need the new level for the end point between the food garden ground level and the path for aforementioned trolleys. And I didn't mean to. I set the goal of moving my fruit trees to the other side of the greenhouse, and edging down it so we could plot.
But then I looked at those nice clean edges and thought βI could get a pry under there, I wonder how easy it would be?β
Surprisingly easy as it turned out. Especially with a 2 meter lever. But then I had a meter and a half of 15cm thick concrete with bluestone chips embedded through it at a 90 angle. No point in letting it back down after all that, and I couldnβt leave it propped up. what if it fell down on wildlife? To the sledgehammer! So then I had pieces that will become the crazy paving on the new path.
Then I started wondering if the next piece would come up that easily and, well, curiosity, cats and now we're missing 8m of pathway. Birds are going apeshit on the rolly pollies.
Living vicariously through this
I live cathartically through your epic backyard landscaping adventures, looking forward to the day I can go in on buying a house and bitta land with someone so I can potter around/go manic as needed (well as much as I can, considering I'll probably be arthritic by the time I can afford that).
Already arthritic, embrace the pain!
First flowers have appeared on the volunteer tomatoes from the compost heap. Several on one stalk so I fink they're cherry toms. I hope.
Events dominate the net and its farken crazy how many people are blaming harris for trump winning.
The fuck is wrong with that country. Chunks of them chose not to vote, or to purity politic, half of them were stupid enough to vote for the persimmon emperor, how the fuck is it 'the dems fault'.
Absolute abrogation of personal responsibility.
Oh man why the fuck did I stay up till 4am....
Success!!! Got the big unwieldly couch dismantled with my friend's help both physically and mentally. Now I can hopefully get rid of it sooner and if there's no takers at least it's a helluva lot easier to move myself. That's a big ticket item cleared.
Next up, gotta keep culling and packing clothes... made a bit of a start this am, but I'll probably do most of it tomorrow. It's been a big day today with long chats, grabbing a coffee, going to Bunnings together, dismantling this couch in confused stages, going out for lunch, dropping friend home...
Just back from a lovely walk with my kid. We got to pat 2 very friendly cats, one of which climbed into his lap when he sat down to get closer to it. The other one was called Bruce.
Itβs reignited the βshould we get another petβ conversation, but canβt decide cat vs dog
My kingdom for chicken salt
and not for a kiss upon her shoulderβ¦
Had a great night practising. I have 3 new songs ready which I'm super happy about β€οΈ
Here's my number one fan hiding in the cupboard in the studio
Goodnight everyone, and thanks for listening to my vent :)
Sedatives have been given to Ted, now I just have to wait for them to knock him out before I can groom him.
Alrighty. Quick house tidy, gym maybe, but of chilling out, the practising the new songs.
Next weekend is birthday weekend, so happy to have a chill one tonight.
Edit: Some uber drivers shouldn't have licenses, seriously. Hopefully I won't need them soon.
I dropped my Darth Vader keepcup and completely shattered the glass. I'm thinking if I find the same size glass keepcup I could put it all back together.
But I'm going to keep an eye on marketplace because damn those things are expensive new
5 ciders into birthday bash for dad, uncle, and cousin.
Gonna crack another
(Flying Brick Original and Draft Cider)
Camping gear has now been mostly sorted - there are a couple of tubs of stuff like cooking gear that will need to be sorted out to either donate or throw out, but all the bigger bits I intend to sell have been photographed. Now I need to do the listings and cross my fingers.
Lmao just got banned from a shitload of lemmy.ml for calling a certain someone Winnie. Badge of honour