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I visit family in other states and I get comments like "I can't believe you are so thin." For context I am a healthy weight and I eat what I consider a reasonable diet. I sit and smile while I watch them drink soda and eat pure sugar and salt. I don't care about your life choices but don't act surprised by someone that's a normal weight.

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[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 8 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Sorry, but when people complain about obesity and talk about how easy it is for them to be healthy, all I think about is my brother. He eats more than me and isn't any more active than me, but hes borderline underweight and can't keep weight on to save his life. YES, people don't take care of themselves, I know, that's not my point. At my most active, most healthy eating part of my life, the best shape I've ever been, I was still considered overweight, so forgive me for rolling my eyes at this.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 hour ago

I realize some people struggle more than others.

I'm mostly talking about the extreme obesity.

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[–] thisisdee@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago

I’ve only visited Colorado once, during my cross country road trip maybe 10 years ago (I’ve since left the US) and loved it there. I did notice how much healthier/thinner everyone was. I was in Boulder for 2-3 days and did a couple day hikes. Everyone was very friendly. I would love to live there. As someone who’s on the higher side of normal weight, I’ve never felt so unfit.

[–] BmeBenji@lemm.ee -3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Well obesity according to what metric? The notoriously outdated and inaccurate BMI?

[–] TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com 7 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Is this OP's way of asking the rest of us to send OP holiday snacks ?

Do you need food OP ?

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I would like others to care for themselves. Stop slowly killing yourself.

[–] TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I'm good. I'm a 150 lb six footer. But holiday cookies are still welcome into my hutch. People used to die from just winter coming and starving. Don't be too disappointed at us for falling for biology.

Enjoy the winter celebrations, my kind OP. And I will continue to work on it, too.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

That's not that bad. I have family who are in the 250-400 range (my estimate)

[–] orgrinrt@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

My BMI is well on the obesity side, though I’m reasonably fit and more importantly, have built some muscle. I think last we checked it was around 35 or so, yet I do frequent 25km day off-road marches with ~25kg backpack just keep my body comfortable with the much less frequent, though much more enjoyable, longer hikes I try to fit in each year. Last I ran the (admittedly not all that useful) Cooper’s test, I got just past the 3km threshold.

All this, while technically being… *checks notes*… obese.

I’m 92kg and around 170cm, which I think gets close to 200lb and 5’7 in the land of the free units. Never felt better about my body and shape, although back in the day when I was doing my NCO school, I was in a much better shape. But about the same weight. Now I have some fluff on my dad belly. But I really find it sad that so many are scared of weight, when it’s the composition that matters.

I think speech like this is scaring people off of gaining a healthy amount of muscle, especially if they are longer in height than average. I’m short and I had to work a lot to get this weight and muscle. Someone tall wouldn’t have to work as much, and would not even be in as good a shape, but feel doubly worse because a lot of people just talk about all this in terms of weight.

All I’m saying is we should be critical of both using BMI in anything else than statistics where it’s at least helpful, and weight alone, which is even less helpful in any general sense. The kids will be too thin and frail in general, if they are scared of getting a healthy amount of strength, since that easily throws the scales off.

[–] HerrBeter@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] orgrinrt@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Happy to elaborate, if I was unclear somewhere

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 31 points 17 hours ago (13 children)

Coding data in color is a pet-peeve of mine. As a colorblind person, maps like this are nearly useless to me.

[–] tempest@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago

There is an ISO somewhere that sets out color blind colors for accessibility.

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[–] jollyrogue@lemmy.ml 1 points 8 hours ago

Another reason to get out of this state.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 11 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Kentucky: “don’t bother asking”

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[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 19 hours ago (28 children)

How closely does this match a heatmap for poverty levels?

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Junk food is cheap so there is a correlation. It isn't a perfect match but it is close.

What is more interesting is looking at obesity by race.

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 21 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Got it. So Colorado should be predominantly rich white people.

Oh hey wait look at that, 76% white and 10% immigrant labor. With a white poverty rate of only about 7.5% (1)

[–] skuzz@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 9 hours ago

21% of the state is also of Hispanic or Latino descent and growing, but yeah, predominantly white.

[–] BodePlotHole@lemmy.world 7 points 14 hours ago

Colorado here. You nailed it. We got a lot of these unbearable "health is life" turds.

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[–] dmtalon@infosec.pub 20 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Anecdotal story about Colorado.

I visited CO a couple of times a while ago for work. I was in my mid 30's (2007) and fairly fit. I left Cincinnati Airport surrounded by overweight people all around me where I felt pretty good about myself. I arrived in Denver, and suddenly felt like I was on the less fit side of the spectrum.

It was VERY obvious the change. It was not something I noticed / thought about in Cincinnati, but it hit me like a ton of bricks when I landed in CO.

I've talked about that experience through the years. I have to watch what I eat, and work to be 'as fit' as I am, it definitely does not just come natural or anything remotely like. I drove around / hiked pretty much every moment I was not working and both trips were amazing. Such a beautiful state!

[–] CodeHead@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

When I moved to Colorado from the midwest in the 90's, my weight started to drop. When I left Colorado for Arizona, my weight went back up.

Partly it was the food, but really it was the outdoor activities.... if you wanted to hang with friends, you spent time outside. (Though restaurants seemed to have healthier options, there were just less restaurants overall so I ended up cooking more too)

[–] itsnotits@lemmy.world 1 points 57 minutes ago

in the '90s*

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[–] sailormoon@lemmy.world 11 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

When I went to Japan in college for 2.5 months I felt kinda big (I was normal weight), but then my flight back home stopped in Texas and...WOW the absolute SHOCK. I felt like a twig. This was many years ago and I still remember it so clearly.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 2 points 9 hours ago

I live in Japan and am overweight, though slowly dropping it. Two years ago, I went back for the first time in like 6+ years and was shocked and horrified at how huge people were.

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[–] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 20 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (12 children)

Is it possible they're expressing admiration or paying you a compliment and not trying to invoke your smirking condescension?

Incidentally, according to the most recent CDC numbers, Colorado is no longer "green" on this map, just Hawaii and DC.

There's only eight states under 30%. West Virgina tops the numbers at 41%.

~75% of the United States is classified as overweight or obese, which is staggering. It has to be pretty unevenly distributed even within states, because I live in a college town in a low-middle-weight state, and very few appear obese, and I'm regularly in a nearby major metro, and I don't see a ton of obese people there either. Rural children are 10-15 times more likely to obese, so I'm guessing that is probably a major factor as well.

25-35% obesity rates covers like 80% of states, so the US is just fat and getting fatter.

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[–] CuddlyCassowary@lemmy.world 54 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like this trend of throwing other states into the ocean. For too long Alaska and Hawaii have been floating around out there on their own!

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