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The fact there's nothing I can't do to hurt him or his reputation in any way pisses me off.

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[–] someguy3@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

My spidy sense is tingling. The part we can see you just escalated and escalated and escalated.

[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago

Bro's still getting cooked in here💀🙏

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 14 points 1 day ago

The fact there's nothing I can't do to hurt him or his reputation in any way pisses me off.

Early indicator of future mental health problems detected

[–] neo2478@sh.itjust.works 44 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Unrelated, but I think I got cancer from that font

[–] TheKMAP@lemmynsfw.com 14 points 1 day ago

Nah the font is very much related.

[–] Doom@ttrpg.network 12 points 1 day ago

tbh I think he's an ass but you're being petty

[–] Konstant@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Platypus@lemmings.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

... An asshole told me to kill myself. And I'm the butthurt?

[–] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -1 points 12 hours ago

So? I don't go around telling people to kill themselves

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 31 points 2 days ago

Your trolling content creators, not all of them are going to take your negative comments well

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If he told you that, you could always report him. The people in charge don't tend to like people saying that.

And if they don't do anything, well, given the stuff you may or may not have said, I'm sure there's a double-edged sword there.

[–] stinky@redlemmy.com 6 points 1 day ago

Agreed. Report his comment; he has to censor it because it's not allowed on the site and he's trying to evade detection

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Am i crazy to think the most efficient way to handle this is to just disengage? Why report it when the outcome of reporting the person is limited by their ability to respond appropriately to social variables that are directed to them?

Let's assume youtube has a perfect response platform for these scenarios. They take all the appropriate actions in the most pefect timely manor. At what point in this scenario do you see a positive outcome from this? Is it more likely the offender gets banned from YouTube and never returns to the social media ether at any level? Or is it more likely the offender has his 250,000 cronies take their side and they use your, albeit justified, response as a reason to rally the troops in a counter attack against YouTube or god forbid you, yourself.

Noone who has 250,000 people in their corner is going to take any action against their image laying down.

It sucks ass but the right move is to be the bigger person and just leave it all at face value which absolutely nothing.

Someone once told me not to let myself get worked up over anything I won't remember in 3 years. Test it out. How many exact scenarios can you remember from 3 years ago where you were stressed out and still get stressed when you think back on it? 4 maybe 5 scenarios at most? Will this be something if you dropped it today, that will haunt you 3 more years from now?

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I still remember the insults and bullying from 20 years ago.

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If you are 30 to 40 years old and something like being bullied 20 yeardon't still stresses you out then it might be something you should find a shrink to help you with because at 30 or 40 years old you should have enough emotional intelligence at this point in life to not be so affected by this like you are. Not being a dick just speaking from the experience of working on my own emotional intelligence and being in that 30-40 year old age range. There is a lot to say about getting help from a shrink but honestly it mostly comes from people who should prolly be seeing a shrink themselves but dont.

With that being said i do want to point out that my original 3 year anecdote requires you to get stressed out over the memories. Meaning there is a difference between remembering something stressfull from 3 years ago and being stressed by something you remember from 3 years ago. Sorry if I explained that poorly in my first comment.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Dude, I don't wanna be a bitch and not fight back. That's it

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

OK. So you acknowledge that you have the emotional intelligence of a 16 year old. You should do something to try and improve that so you stop responding to things like an idiot.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -5 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I guess being a bitch is being a kid according to you. Just don't waste my time then. I read your comments and post you're a child. I don't have time for this

[–] Voyajer@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] fuzzyspudkiss@midwest.social 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah I'm going to withhold judgement until I see the initial comment they were replying to. I doubt a 250K sub YouTuber is randomly finding commenters to get in fights with. And if they are, they're not going to last long as a YouTuber.

Are you proud?

[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] dumbass@leminal.space 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thebirdman sounds like a bitch.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world -1 points 17 hours ago