this post was submitted on 04 Feb 2025
79 points (98.8% liked)

Casual Conversation

2123 readers
314 users here now

Share a story, ask a question, or start a conversation about (almost) anything you desire. Maybe you'll make some friends in the process.


RULES (updated 01/22/25)

  1. Be respectful: no harassment, hate speech, bigotry, and/or trolling. To be concise, disrespect is defined by escalation.
  2. Encourage conversation in your OP. This means including heavily implicative subject matter when you can and also engaging in your thread when possible. You won't be punished for trying.
  3. Avoid controversial topics (politics or societal debates come to mind, though we are not saying not to talk about anything that resembles these). There's a guide in the protocol book offered as a mod model that can be used for that; it's vague until you realize it was made for things like the rule in question. At least four purple answers must apply to a "controversial" message for it to be allowed.
  4. Keep it clean and SFW: No illegal content or anything gross and inappropriate. A rule of thumb is if a recording of a conversation put on another platform would get someone a COPPA violation response, that exact exchange should be avoided when possible.
  5. No solicitation such as ads, promotional content, spam, surveys etc. The chart redirected to above applies to spam material as well, which is one of the reasons its wording is vague, as it applies to a few things. Again, a "spammy" message must be applicable to four purple answers before it's allowed.
  6. Respect privacy as well as truth: Don’t ask for or share any personal information or slander anyone. A rule of thumb is if something is enough info to go by that it "would be a copyright violation if the info was art" as another group put it, or that it alone can be used to narrow someone down to 150 physical humans (Dunbar's Number) or less, it's considered an excess breach of privacy. Slander is defined by intentional utilitarian misguidance at the expense (positive or negative) of a sentient entity. This often links back to or mixes with rule one, which implies, for example, that even something that is true can still amount to what slander is trying to achieve, and that will be looked down upon.

Casual conversation communities:

Related discussion-focused communities

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 11 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

It's not "gone", but the notion of it being "acceptable" is gone:

Using 'retard' as a slur, not only for people with intellectual disabilities but also just for people or things you think were stupid.

[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Sadly that slur's starting to become in vogue again ⚰

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 19 minutes ago (1 children)

I was gonna say the same. I saw the R word casually dropped in a CRT enthusiast group the other day and called the guy out, and a bunch of people stood with me, but nearly as many brushed it off as no big deal.

[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 1 points 10 minutes ago

Worst part ? Seen LEFTISTS say it wen clearly they should know better ❗❗ And in my experience see it on tumblr more than any where else

Oar wat about "sch⬛⬛⬛" ⁉️⁉️ Wen we'll ever move past describing (peop|thing)s using ableist words

[–] 8000gnat@reddthat.com 7 points 8 hours ago

white dog poop

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Vinyl (for music, not floors).

[–] threeduck@aussie.zone 1 points 1 hour ago

I don't care much about the supposed fidelity, but having a group of mates around each pick an album from my stack is a lot of fun.

It stops people from focusing too hard on the music and going "oh wait lemme queue up this track" etc.

[–] MothmanDelorian@lemmy.world 22 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 9 hours ago

As long as the law is properly enforced. It's worse to have smokers just all over the place

[–] GarlicToast@programming.dev 4 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

CRT screens and incandescent lamp.

[–] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Yeah those things would get HOT. like, hot enough to melt plastic. And they were really wasteful.

[–] AlmightyTritan@beehaw.org 5 points 8 hours ago

Having recently played some retro games on era appropriate hardware, I'm actually a little sad CRTs are gone.

Obviously they were heavy, hard to manufactur safely, and were filled with toxic materials, but man are they like the perfect anti-aliasing tool for retro games. I'm sure some good filters exist to replicating it on newer monitors tho.

Overall tho I am glad both of these things are no longer the defacto used tech.

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 8 points 12 hours ago

George W. Bush's presidency. I don't know what the kids are smoking when they say current republicans make him look "classy" or that Trump's first term was worse than his. He bred a constant state of paranoia and xenophobia and used it to justify killing countless people in the middle east. The damage done to that part of the world is staggering and everyone just treats it like background noise.

Also that decade post-SpongeBob where every kid's cartoon was about a loud, annoying, dumb guy.

[–] statler_waldorf@sopuli.xyz 49 points 20 hours ago

Smoking everywhere. For anyone who wasn't around for the 70s/80s/90s, everything was tinged yellow and smelled of smoke. Car/plane/train seats had built-in ashtrays. Restaurants had smoking sections separated from the non-smoking sections by waist-high walls.

I have asthma and it sucked. Not sure if I grew out of it as I got older or if there's just not a miasma of smoke around everywhere, but it rarely bothers me anymore.

[–] sleepmode@lemmy.world 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Pagers. Having to find a pay phone. Looking through newspapers for jobs. Absolutely gutless emissions- strangled malaise era cars with horrible brakes and numb steering.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Looking through the paper for a job was in some ways better. Now it's so hard to even get past the initial filters to an actual human because job postings get spammed with hundreds of applications, many from people who are underqualified and/or straight up lying on their resume. For remote jobs, you're competing against the whole country whereas with jobs in the paper you were mostly competing against those in your local area.

[–] sleepmode@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

Is funny how we have all this tech for it and they’ve only managed to enshittify the process. Some sites are going back to the original purpose like indeed but it’s still like tossing your resume into space.

[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 16 points 18 hours ago

Women having to get husband’s permission to open a bank account (speaking of the US).

[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 64 points 1 day ago (12 children)

Not 100% gone yet, but gas powered yard tools are dying. Battery powered tools are just better in 99% of use cases.

Two stroke engines do seem dead though which is awesome, because mixed gas was a massive pain in the ass.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Even better: tools on a wire

[–] morbidcactus@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

It's getting legit difficult to find corded tools, corded mowers are fine for the size of yard I have, but choice in those was extremely limited. Yeah battery ones exist, they're twice the price for the cheapest ones and only go up from there, I can live with an extension cord.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I haven't had much trouble after ditching google and bing. Except for headphones that take aaa batteries

[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Wired tools are also a pain unless you have a limited scope for movement.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 1 points 8 hours ago

I make sure to have plenty of extension cords, and sockets hanging from most ceilings (with a place to tuck them away).

I don't know hoe relevant this is, but I am in a 240 volt country. So extension cords don't really run hot or poorly even with quite a bit of distance and high loads

load more comments (11 replies)
load more comments
view more: next ›