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[–] NataliePortland@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Got to hang out in Guadalajara Mexico it was fun and delicious

[–] HexPat@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago

That sounds amazing and I’m slightly jealous. We’re headed to Mexico for the month of May and it can’t get here soon enough!

[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 4 points 4 days ago

I'm happy that my current default altitude is positive.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Some boardgames I've bought arrived, only one still in transit. I've read and understood the rules of 2, I'm ready to put them in action.

Now, the hard part: getting people to play with.

[–] Chefdano3@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Sweet! That's exciting! What games did you get?

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I bought Herdeiros do Khan, Brazil Imperial, Azul Summer Pavillion (mini) and Anachrony, the latter is the one I'm still waiting to arrive and is likely the one I'll take the longest to understand the rules :)

[–] Chefdano3@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago

Oh man, I've seen Brazil imperial and it sounded like something my friends and I would love. Kinda seems similar to terraforming mars, which is a game we play when we get the chance, but different in a lot of way that seem like a lot of fun.

I don't think I could convince my friends to play herdeitos do khan, but I know I would love a game like that.

That a pretty sweet collection you got there, I hope you get a chance to play them. Lol

[–] HexPat@lemm.ee 3 points 4 days ago

I’ve found several Reddit alternatives to explore

[–] pet1t@lemm.ee 3 points 4 days ago

My grandparents finally saw the house I bought with my gf and we had a wonderful afternoon with coffee, cake and lots of talking

[–] Chefdano3@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago

I started my new job a few weeks ago after being unemployed for 6 months. Last week, my 2 year old twins, after I stand by the door and tell them goodbye and that I'm leaving for work, unprompted, started running up to me saying "no daddy, kiss youuuu" and demand I kneel down so they can give me goodbye kisses on each cheek before I leave.

This is now a daily thing. It is the best damn thing in the world.

[–] DannyBoy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

Yesterday was a federal holiday, so a long weekend was nice.

[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Nothing. Last week was a shit week.

realized crunchy roll had unlocked some series for valentines getting as much anime in as I can (not my cup of tea what they have available but anime is like sex for me). Also bath time. Soooooo relaxing.

[–] Ofiuco@lemmy.cafe 1 points 4 days ago

Bough some new basic clothing to wear while I'm still unemployed, just enough to not look like I'm getting ready to end it all.
Also ordered the parts to build me a little Pinky Vape, will take a while to be sent here but I can wait.