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Café

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Welcome to our virtual third place, The Café.

Come on in and make a new human connection over a cup of coffee (or Teh Tarik). This is a casual community, do whatever you want, share your oyen pics, your frustrations, and even organize a weekend picnic with the community. The world is your oyster.

Rules are simple, be kind and civil with each other. As with any other café, rude patrons will be kicked out.

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[–] katabana@monyet.cc 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Just found out that my dobi guy is from kelantan. He's a chinese so of course i asked him about all those burning questions.

From what i understood, chinese mostly mingle together and have their own community, where everything haram is available there (when the state allowed it).

Yes many chinese supported pas. Didnt ask why. Yet.

Yes the water sucks. The teh tarik free flow is true and not exxagerated.

Apparently most tauke in kelantan are chinese. He deacribed the situation like indonesia, where majority of wealth is hold by local chinese.

Apparently non kelantanese cannot have permanent land deed there. Cn only rent about 60+ years.

Apparently kelantanese cinese damn rich. Authority doesnt check their wealth. They keep lots of cash and use it to avoid tax. Even went as far as using cash only to buy and build houses. Not sure how that works because we will get targeted immediately if we add those properties under our name but that's what he said.

Would kepochi more but customer came.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago

hmm, sounds to me they just benefits from PAS, not in the development way but easier to line their pocket, or maybe they just like slower pace.

[–] monkeyballnutty@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

make an account here so can chat with others. lol

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] monkeyballnutty@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

wait ... you are... annoyed crabby? i didn't know can use emoji as username lol

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Haha, no lah, you can customise your username after creating an account, can change it in your profile

Also i think the display picture can even be animated, i think lah 🙈

[–] aerir 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

hello, from the other side

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

With how janky the fediverse is:

You must've called a thousand times

[–] aerir 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm only seeing 10 comments in this thread, instead of 60+

Could be I'm the only user here access this community

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Maybe, it's super annoying sometime. Or maybe because of that language filter, first timer will set their language and that might affect what you see here. They should've just remove the setting entirely

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

Lemmy instances can't fully show off Kbin-based communities (aka magazines) they've federated with, so just giving a shout to the Microblog section of MagASEAN (which you can subscribe from here though !magASEAN@kbin.social) since the recent posts are full of makan posts: https://kbin.social/m/magASEAN/microblog

[–] SheenTStars@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

Masing2 yang aku jumpa ni rupa2nya ada helah. Berpura2 baik sebab "nak tarik" aku "ke pangkal jalan" kononnya, pada masa yang sama dalam hati diorang benci aku sangat2. Dasar hati busuk perasan ahli syurga.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Urgh, Connect is so bad, keep saying instance is under maintenance even though i can access it in web 😒

[–] ztirk@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

created this account on the 11th cake day of my reddit account lol

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

welcome dude!

[–] frieslovingvampire@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Happy July! Sad to hear most 3rd party apps are already down. But, i had a lot of fun last two days? Well, even prior to that. Had my person over to meet the family and the cats. My anxious cat who's always anxious and scared of strangers warmed up to him and let my person pet his back. So cute 🥺🥺

[–] sleepy@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] weecious@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (9 children)
[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Yup, cockles

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[–] some_random_meatbag@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Opened up Apollo by habit. Sigh. RIP

[–] yong1996@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yo is this a new flavour. Never seen this one before.

I have to say. I love the mamee chef series. The seasonings and garnishes . It feels complete rather than just what Maggie do just throw in a mee and some powder

[–] yong1996@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

I have no idea, just saw it in the grocery store and grab it

[–] UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Few days ago, I watched this video on YouTube of people secretly learning their enthic language to suprise their parents. They would find tutors online. I'm thinking to myself. These people are lucky that their enthicity is common enough that there is a tutor online

I don't have that privilege. when I Google my enthic language. It's a fkin Wikipedia page and other pages of that nature. An archival piece

Not that I don't try. The few times I try with my parents. My mom is pretty receptive of it. My dad on the other hand...he made fun of me when I did it. I think he sees it like how a mexican guy speaks in perfect mexican but when it comes to certain words, they'll say it in perfect American accent. A Mishmash of perfect mexican with perfect American. That's how I sound like to him maybe. I hope that analogy make sense. Anyway, yeah that made me not wanting to learn it more and more.

Maybe it's like pandas, just let it die. Not worth saving just because they look cool. Too much hassle not enough utility.

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[–] zen@monyet.cc 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

is there anyone here who isn't/wasn't a regular reddit or fediverse user?

over the years, I have probably registered accounts on reddit to ask some questions (not on r/my as far as I remember), but never stayed for more than a month.

as for the fediverse, I remember registering a mastodon account during its early years to see what it was all about, but that too didn't last a month.

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

Hahahaha this is my first time lepak in a Malaysian subreddit and previously also never been on Reddit much. OTOH been on Fedi since Nov 22 daily hahahhahaha (it helps I'm not on actual mastodon and I've never been on a mega big instance)

[–] rakyat@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I posted on Reddit once in a while & stalk quite a few subreddits but wasn’t a “regular” user. I’ve been pretty active on Mastodon since the twitter-to-fediverse exodus though (before that I was mostly a lurker on Twitter). The fediverse has been a lot more fun than mainstream social media for me because of the smaller & more tight-knit communities.

[–] YourClarke@monyet.cc 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Morning! Whatcha plan today?

[–] YourClarke@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

At my grandma's house

Was lifting a few dozens of heavy plank woods

I almost fainted haha

I feel pity for those who have to do this kind of job almost every day

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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