this post was submitted on 02 Jul 2023
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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. A showerthought should offer a unique perspective on an ordinary part of life.

Rules

  1. All posts must be showerthoughts
  2. The entire showerthought must be in the title
  3. Avoid politics
    • 3.1) NEW RULE as of 5 Nov 2024, trying it out
    • 3.2) Political posts often end up being circle jerks (not offering unique perspective) or enflaming (too much work for mods).
    • 3.3) Try c/politicaldiscussion, volunteer as a mod here, or start your own community.
  4. Posts must be original/unique
  5. Adhere to Lemmy's Code of Conduct

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[–] Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world 248 points 1 year ago (36 children)

The big user experience problem is everyone is getting funneled into Lemmy.world and Lemmy.ml, and they can’t scare fast enough.

But Lemmy is federated. So signup for a smaller instance. You’ll still be able to subscribe and post to communities on other instances.

[–] kobra@lemmy.world 69 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Ha, I applied to two smaller instances and have heard nothing but radio silence. The smaller instances are of no help if they don’t let anyone in.

[–] OtakuAltair@vlemmy.net 73 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (20 children)

Use and recommend lemm.ee, lemmy.one, and vlemmy.net to others

Seriously, stop recommending large servers when lemmy hasn't been optimized for that yet. The point of decentralization is spreading out and still being connected; let's not waste that advantage.

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I run https://thelemmy.club - people are always welcome here :)

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[–] sadbehr 28 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I was on world at first because I thought each instance was its own subreddit, so I went with the one with the most users! After a day and a half I somewhat understand instances now and have switched to a smaller one. Hopefully other reddit refugees will do it too.

Thanks for being so welcoming and patient with us. I'm really glad to be here.

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[–] mykl@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That’s where join-lemmy really missed out. They should have introduced a set of rules like join-mastodon where instances must have at least two admins, a clear code of conduct, and clear rules as to how they manage closedown. That way users would be reasonably safe in picking an instance at random. But they didn’t so everyone should go to safe choices like lemmy.world.

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[–] xintrik@lemm.ee 24 points 1 year ago (18 children)

Unless it defederates like beehaw keeps doing.

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[–] Nies221@lemmy.world 176 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Still better than the official reddit app.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 73 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Smoke signals would be better than the official app.

[–] troublecat@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I've considered switching to carrier pigeons

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[–] Poe@lemmy.world 42 points 1 year ago

A surprisingly low bar

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[–] AnObscureTenet@lemmy.world 147 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I want to be mad but FFS Reddit had Conde Nast money for most of its shittery so they had NO excuse except incompetence.

At least Fediverse servers are typically Steve's old laptop or some shit so it's understandable.

[–] ShittyKopper@lemmy.w.on-t.work 97 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (19 children)

It's generally more like "Steve's 10 eur/mo cloud server in which they run ten other things next to Lemmy, which is written by two devs and barely held together by duct tape and prayers"

But that doesn't change the overall point.

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 year ago (7 children)

it's that cheap? If I spun up an instance and paid less than $150 how many users would I be able to have before it implodes?

[–] ShittyKopper@lemmy.w.on-t.work 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

The instance I'm replying from is a 5 eur/mo box from Hetzner.

Your main concerns are gonna be active user count & storage space. Especially if you decide to allow image or god forbid video uploads. Having a bunch of inactive users aren't going to affect costs that much as long as they don't have, like, a milion subscriptions. (If they're all subscribed to the same community things will "deduplicate")

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[–] CataclysmZA@lemmy.world 120 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Given the... frankly absurd rate at which people are signing up to servers, and subscribing to other servers, and posting and commenting and upvoting and...

I mean it's getting a bit hairy, and user growth was already following a very steep growth curve. Reddifugees are hugging all instances to death.

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[–] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 120 points 1 year ago (1 children)

search actually works here.

already better than old reddit.

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[–] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 93 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It just feels so weird to have big threads with good fresh discussions going on hours after the post.

Not to say there isn't an occasional asshole here and there during this wave, but I don't think reddit has ever felt like this at any point.

[–] meisme@lemmy.world 42 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's because sorting comments by "hot" prioritizes new comments more than old comments even taking into account votes. So a 3d old comment with 50 votes might appear below a 2h old comment with 5 votes. Unlike Reddit which just pushes the first comments to the top and anything new will drown in the sea of comments and never surface or be seen.

[–] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's my guess as well. And the post default sorting by "active" means the top posts usually have a lot more staying power compared to reddit.

Didn't see much here that made me roll my eyes and think:"That made me feel dumber for reading it.", whereas on reddit that's pretty much every big thread.

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[–] pspat@lemmy.world 71 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Would upvote but I keep getting server-side errors

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[–] klieg2323@lemmy.piperservers.net 59 points 1 year ago (11 children)

And here I am laughing on my speedy private instance. For real, the best part of Lemmy is if your experience is bad you can hop to a different instance and not miss a post

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[–] rockettaco37@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's early days here. Give it some time...

[–] KidsTryThisAtHome@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] shoobie@lemmy.world 46 points 1 year ago (15 children)

For those of you who, like me, are coming from Apollo you guys can try wefwef.app. It’s great

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[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 46 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Does the Narwhal bacon again?

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[–] docmox@lemmy.world 46 points 1 year ago (14 children)

Legit the first thing I noticed. It’s actually not that hard to find the community you’re looking for.

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[–] SulaymanF@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

If you’re bothered by performance, donate to the server to get better resources. Lemmy.world added more servers and load balancing, and there’s a patreon to donate $1 a month.

See the sidebar on the frontpage:

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[–] liontigerwings@lemmy.world 44 points 1 year ago

To be fair, it worked well right before reddit cut off api access. This will probably happen everytime reddit does something stupid to drive away users. In other words, it could happen every two week based on how spez is lately.

[–] Anonymau5@lemmy.world 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I forgive it. It has tremendous potential

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[–] Darkwatch00@lemmy.fmhy.ml 40 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's great to be here. All part of the fun of being apart of something new.

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[–] Xylight@programming.dev 39 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The instances are volunteer-ran and make no profit, give them some time to iron everything out

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[–] wwaxwork@lemmy.world 39 points 1 year ago

Yeah but these guys aren't trying to make a profit from us and Reddit had venture capital money.

[–] Reken@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, every time I try to upvote something, it'll take like 10-15 seconds to register

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[–] Ricky@lemm.ee 35 points 1 year ago (6 children)

All the old Redditors jumped ship. Let's hope the new redditors and spam bots don't jump ship with them.

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[–] Petter1@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You gotta use lemmy.world for the OG experience 😂

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[–] aslaii@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Labotomized@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Not sure if this is meant to be negative or positive but I for one like all the growing pains and issues. It makes the whole experience a little more engaging for me. I really like reading up on what problems are happening and how the teams are working towards solutions. I especially like the technical details that are just a little over my head because it’s fun to learn about!

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[–] nikdog@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

The best part of this post, is the segue into the new !showerthoughts community

[–] Moonwalk@lemm.ee 24 points 1 year ago (7 children)
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