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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[–] Robust_Mirror@aussie.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No I don't get attached to things like social media sites.

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[–] SeeleLowe@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I honestly don't feel that way about Reddit but I do feel that way about sync... I'll miss sync, unless he ports it over, which he is giving consideration.

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[–] exRedditor@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Definitely! I will miss my late-night reading and scrolling. Also, getting invested in comment sections and learning new things from strangers. I will miss Apollo so much.

Nah. I never liked using centralized monoliths like Reddit and other social media sites but stayed there due to lack of alternatives. I'm glad to see a federated network like Lemmy getting enough activity that I can ditch Reddit.

[–] Violet@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

In a way I'm a little sad but I'm also hopeful. I started on Reddit 13 years ago and it was a very different place than it is now. I liked it better then, and I think I'm sad and will miss it for what it was, not what it is. I'm hopeful for a fresh start here on Lemmy where it feels like I'm getting back to the actual conversation with other users, which is what I miss about the current Reddit. There's very little conversation there anymore, so much of it is just pictures and jokes and bots.

[–] kokos5@latte.isnot.coffee 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah lemmy seems like whats reddit was 8 years ago. This is awesome and community is really help full with migration. we just have to migrate popular subs.

[–] ZenkorSoraz@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

Yes Reddit was great before it betrayed its users with a level of discourse and creativity not seen anywhere on the internet

[–] OttoVonNoob@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

I'm used to the layout of RIF and my niche subreddits NCD/Ukraine Conflict, NBA but I'm posting here and trying to add to the community. Hoping for a better mobile app one day though:X

[–] Kerrangutan@lemmy.one 4 points 1 year ago

A little sad and a lot salty, my main account got suspended by reddit in retaliation for actions taken as a moderator and got totally ignored by members of the mod relations team and their oh so smugly named "anti evil operations" drones.

I'm sad Reddit is no longer the site it was

I'm glad that Spez and the rest of the reddit execs get to see their precious cash-cow die in flames.

[–] buhala@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

Nah, honestly this is great. I missed the old Reddit with less people and a more community feel. This is fantastic!

[–] Phrax@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago

It reminds me of when I tried switching to Linux (from Windows). Functional but lacking a lot of mainstream software, especially games. Lemmy feels way easier to use like a normal website, but there is a feeling almost akin to homesickness.

No, it was going to happen, reddit has been becoming horrible since 2015. It could not die fast enough, except now the problem is lemmy is not ready. There will not be another exodus, the center of mass shifts to lemmy, or it goes back to reddit.

[–] Brad_Brace@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

I guess I'm still in the denial phase. I haven't technically left reddit yet. I guess during the blackout, then I'll really know how I feel without it. I'll definitely have to leave once RIF stops working.

I'm just having a really hard time getting used to kbin and Lemmy.

[–] CybrRunnr@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

I felt a little like that. I miss a few of my favorite subs. The β€œbreak up” feelings went away when I stopped lurking and started participating.

Hmm~ I guess I feel sad a little, yeah. Reddit was a pretty cool place. Still is if you hang in the right communities. But I do most of my browsing using a mobile app as of late and if they're killing off RIF and Apollo, I might as well look elsewhere. I also feel a little optimistic about this "migration" slowly taking place, since this time it's not out of some knee-jerk reaction to admins banning some problematic subreddits, spawning places like Voat.

And the federated, open-source nature of Lemmy/Kbin/Mastodon reminds me of how a group of friends can create their own Discord server.

[–] mfzachary@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

I’m more upset about losing Apollo than anything. That app was the best thing to happen to the Reddit experience for me, and losing it will be weird for a while.

Haven’t been on KBin too long, but I’m glad to have found it.

[–] miles@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

tbh i've been so sick of reddit lately that i've been spending time on 4chan again, which is really saying something

hoping the fediverse will put a stop to that lmfao

[–] DarkThoughts@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Not much. There's so much mod & admin abuse nowadays that I developed kind of a resentment. On top of that there's a lot of rude or downright hateful user behavior that seems to not just not get punished, but in some cases even encouraged. The only thing that lets me endure it for now is simply the community relevant content. As for kbin it needs exactly that. More users and content. Functionality of the site is good enough to be usable for me and will surely also improve but we really need the people and content to bring everything together.

[–] gnuslashdhruv@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

I'm really hoping some of my smaller communities focused on specific novels or games make the leap over.

[–] ADHDefy@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Absolutely! I'm not a particular fan of reddit, the company, but I have loved reddit, the community, for a long time. My first account is over 11 years old now. That platform has been something of a home to me on the internet for a really long time. I think it's not abnormal to feel some grief or something grief-adjecent over what's been happening.

[–] _Stalwart_@lemmy.fmhy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Not sad, just disappointed. They could have the perfect app and they ruined it, all just for more money.

[–] Lumilias@pawb.social 4 points 1 year ago

Honestly yes, I had been using Reddit since at least 2010 and I was a strong forum user before that. Losing the community hurts, and fuck spez for forgetting his roots.

[–] Sowatee@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Been on reddit for almost a decade. Watched it fall from a great website to the current day shithole. I'm relieved actually.

Absolutely. I had 86k karma, and wasted 3-4 years on there...

Not that much compared to some people but I like to think that I contributed a lot of content to the site.

Now I saw this crap and decided to move.

[–] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

No it's long since passed it's prime when it stood for something nows its just a cash grab.

As Ivan Drago says if he dies , he dies

[–] cptnflinty 4 points 1 year ago

Nah, this is exciting, like getting out of a mildly abusive relationship that all your friends and family knew was bad and had been trying to get you to leave the jerk for years and now you’re finally out the door. And you feel that spark in your chest, the stirring of anticipation you’ve not felt in a long time.

Get into it, you fucking hedonist

Yes, particularly for the more niche communities

[–] bkkcitypokey@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

I do yes. I've been on that place for 4 - 5 years and moving out for the first time is quite a change.

Nah, it's one of 1000 sites that rose and is now falling.

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