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Patient Gamers

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A gaming sub free from the hype and oversaturation of current releases, catering to gamers who wait at least 12 months after release to play a game. Whether it's price, waiting for bugs/issues to be patched, DLC to be released, don't meet the system requirements, or just haven't had the time to keep up with the latest releases.

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I saw the recent API charge news with Reddit and saw that people were discussing alternatives to Reddit in the event we all have to abandon it.

Joined Lemmy here and noticed one of my favorite subreddits had no Lemmy equivalent — so I created it.

I have no desire to be a mod, so if anyone wants to take on that role just let me know.

I’m just hoping people do post here if they’re checking Lemmy out and seeing what’s available community-wise.

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[–] BlinkerFluid@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago

Remember kids. It only works if you stay here.

[–] darkfoe@lemmy.serverfail.party 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's nice to see this sub exist outside reddit. Usually I'm patient on playing any new games so I can wait for them to be runnable on Linux if not native (ie, via proton)

[–] flibbertigibbet@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I remember a point where I owned every game that was payable on Linux, this was even a good while after steam launched for Linux. Now that's just not possible.

[–] jacaw@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Patient Gamers was one of my favorites too - I might repost some of my reviews here to add some content

[–] Subtex@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Please do! That would be great!

[–] SpiderPig2000 5 points 1 year ago

I've always valued the perspectives, reviews, opinions and recommendations of the members of r/patientgamers to help me find new gaming experiences.

Thanks for creating this community.

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Over 90% of my Reddit access is through a 3rd party mobile app; the future for this is looking a bit bleak.

I’m testing the waters of Lemmy in the unlikely event that the Reddit admins and the majority of users notice that it's shooting itself in the foot with these changes to the API access policy.

[–] nullthegrey@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm here, Reddit has been going the wrong direction for a while in my opinion, all the external money usually ruins things. Hopefully this type of thing is a bit more resistant to that.

[–] sotolf@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Well, I mean since all are different instances that aren't owned by the same person it's way harder to buy it up

[–] Reddit_Refugee2023@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Nice, glad to see this community here.

[–] Unkechaug@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Love the patient gamers subreddit but considering this community is so large already, I think I might make this my new home regardless of what happens to the subreddit. I hope others decide the same, perhaps we can start getting some good recurring posts and organized content to kick start this place.

In the meantime I’m gonna try and put forth some nice conversations in the comments.

[–] zomm_pounks@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

patientgamers is one of the best gaming subs on reddit, good to see it here as well. Thanks for creating it.

[–] DrQuint@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's actually a bit curious, like, what exactly about its topic of avoiding newer games makes people less likely to be asswipes? 12 months isn't even that much and I always felt like ti should have been a wider margin, but given that the people who made posts were posting older games anyways, it was clear there was no need to worry.

[–] Lowbird@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

I think it self-selects for people who are engaging with the games for the games, and who want to talk about the games, with less interest for their current popularity or the media buzz surrounding the games. Thus less bandwagon hate/love/whatever.

Probably trends older too, but that's just a guess. It's so easy to forget that people on the internet might be literally 12, but a lot of them are.

[–] Subtex@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

It was one of my favorites as well and was the first one to pop in my mind when I was thinking about what subreddits I wish were here.

I figured since it didn't exist yet I might as well just make it and hopefully others will see it and start up the community here.

Really cool to wake up today and see more people posting!

[–] rationalistfaith@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hi, hello and howdy! Glad to have more options!

[–] Subtex@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago
[–] trollblox_@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I'd be happy to mod!

[–] icecrmsandwich@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Hi! Thanks for this and great to see some promising participation and posts already and it feels like a new home

[–] XLRV@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nice idea to recreate the good communities that were nice on reddit, the most important thing is to have those subreddit equivalents, and people to participate and trying to makes those communities thriving.

[–] Subtex@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Agreed 100%

It's a bit of a bummer reading the reddit threads where some people are complaining about reddit alternatives not having millions of users. It's sort of self explanatory (I thought) that nothing is a drop-in replacement for reddit right now because everyone is still just using reddit. You gotta start somewhere...

[–] XLRV@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, unfortunately that's the hardest part, creating nice alternative is not the most difficult part (even if it still difficult), but to have enough users to make the platform interesting and "self sustaining" enough really is, and I think it is even harder now than the time when there was the same kind of "exodus" from Digg to Reddit (I wasn't there for that though)

[–] Mersampa@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The difference with the Digg to Reddit exodus is that the two communities were rival competitors working in the same space. It wasn't a case of one being a huge monolith that everyone used and the other being a small unknown, they were more evenly matched and reddit already had plenty of content and community, and neither were household names.

The situation today is very different. If Lemmy takes off, which I hope it does, it will likely still be small compared to reddit. A bit like how young people are fleeing facebook for other platforms, but there's still no platform actually displacing facebook.

[–] pushka@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The masses will always use some corporate pushed product ~ Lemmy may be like early days Reddit - a small community of tech ppl , then may grow and get better in the future with volume , but Facebook will probably never die because all ages (old) and non tech/agile ppl are using it now ~~

[–] Lowbird@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't think it has to be that way. Like with Linux, I think there's a set of UI and onboarding and accessibility and features problems that don't get addressed well enough for it to draw in and work for a lot of people, but those are workable problems if enough people agree they're problems and work on them.

I tried Linux once. Mint, because it was recommened as the most user friendly and akin to Windows. Installing it at all involved following a detailed walkthrough and checking a hash using cmd. Then it turns out it doesn't even have a colorblind filter mode - the most basic of accessibility features people can just expect from Windows. And the Linux forums were full of people who wanted to lord it ovee others and make fun of newbies and try to trick them into deleting their OS, rather than helpful peple. Linus Tech Tips did a good video on similar problems trying to use Linux as a newbie.

This obviously isn't near as bad as Linux in that regard, but still, it puts the fediverse thing forward first, and in a confusing way. It needs a clear, simple, stripped down onboarding just to get people in the gate, then if they want to stick around they can learn more later on.

That said, Tumblr also has a shite onboarding and that's doing pretty well these days, too.

It's worth it even if it never becomes the most popular, however. My favorite communities tend to be of middling size anyway. The disadvantage is the lower amount of hyper-specific communities that a giant userbase supports.

[–] Mersampa@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does the Lemmy license prevent corporations running nodes? In fact, it doesn't even have to be Lemmy.

If you think about email, it's widespread and used by everyone; but it is still mostly ruled by corporations (Google's Gmail, Microsoft's Outlook/Hotmail) for the average personal user. The protocol is open but the servers are run by different corporations each with their own UI. I'd guess there's probably no reason we won't end up like that some day, with some corporation creating a big social network with proprietary code, that happens to work well with ActivityPub so they have heaps of content and users on day 1, getting over that common initial social media hurdle (that none of your friends use it).

[–] possum@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Honestly a big commercialised Lemmy instance would already be a huge improvement over the current state, because it would still be federated

[–] zakiuem@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Welcome! I hope more ex-redditors will join here. Lemmygrad is for mostly far-left.

[–] Lowbird@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Like, anarcho-socialist far left, or "making excuses for nominally 'communist' dictatorships" tankie far left?

Regardless, beehaw seems cool so far also. I'm feeling hopeful overall!

[–] zakiuem@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Marxist-Leninist mostly, that instance is designed for them.

[–] DrQuint@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You didn't want to mod, but now you have the unfortunate task of figuring out who to make mod... OH NO! Anyways, I assume other instances probably had their own PatientGamers communities created, I wonder how to follow those.

[–] Subtex@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I assume other instances probably had their own PatientGamers communities created, I wonder how to follow those

On the Lemmy.ml website communities search, you can specify whether to search “Local” or “All”. I assume that’s the difference between “On THIS instance” and “on ANY instance”.

Searching for “Patient” there only shows this one, so maybe no one else created on on other instances yet?

[–] VioletteRei@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I confirm, it's the only one. But since we can comment on posts from other instance, for now I think it's great having only one, since it's still very niche

[–] pitninja@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly, unless there's a pressing need for different moderation policies and moderation teams, I don't really see a need to reinvent the wheel and duplicate most communities across multiple servers. I think we'll likely see user bases start gathering into the biggest communities for their particular interest and be pretty satisfied with it as long as the communities are being managed appropriately. Since it's easy to create a community, I know people will do what they please, though, and there will ultimately be hundreds of "duplicate" 1 person communities scattered across all the servers lol

[–] Pepp3r@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah the Lemmy admins said that they want people to make new instances and such, but if Lemmy were to take off I think what we'll see is reddit communities replicated on the main instance or a currently popular alt instance like beehaw. I'm personally waiting a little bit for my favorite subs to pop up here with alternatives because I don't have the time to mod, but I fully expect them to show up on the main instance if they show up on Lemmy at all.

[–] AbelianGrape@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

fwiw, that is exactly the difference

[–] Subtex@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks for the confirmation!

[–] AnomanderRake@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Hopefully this will bring back the quality discussion being a smaller community too, I've found the patient gamers subreddit has decreased in quality with a huge user base.

[–] Magusbear@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That was my first thought after being kind of bummed out that reddit pulled such a dick move. The thought of having smaller communities again is really nice. I was gravitating towards smaller subreddits anyways but a lot of times there just isn't a smaller alternative or subreddits get a sudden influx of users leading to less discussions and more bad memes.

[–] Subtex@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

but a lot of times there just isn't a smaller alternative or subreddits get a sudden influx of users leading to less discussions and more bad memes.

Yeah I hate that too.

I don't really want to make some official rules list for posting here though. I'd rather keep it self moderated by everyone here for as long as we can. If something is clearly causing negative feedback and people want it addressed we can do that.

Let's just cross our fingers that this place stays chill for a while 🤞

[–] Magusbear@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Crossing my fingers as well. Let's see where this all goes first.

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Thats one thing I really didn't like about reddit. Millions of users is just too much IMO.

[–] MrAegis@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I joined this morning and was pleasantly surprised to find a number of subreddit equivalents over here. Looking forward to seeing this place grow!

[–] Phynix@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yep, I hopped over from Reddit after this morning as well.

[–] 018118055@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure if I'm patient or just slow. The mould seems to fit though.

[–] GoOnASteamTrain@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you for making this! :) It was one of my favourite places to read discussions about games I'd not got round to playing or waiting to play. :)

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