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[-] FunctionallyLiterate@lemmy.ca 24 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

When parents no longer serve as role models, stepping into parenthood yourself becomes an act of improvisation.

I don't know about Poland, but in my American experience that's actually better. Older generations bullied and beat their children, and believed that was good child-rearing - the legacy of which lives on in today's political right-wing's collection of bullies and their sycophants.

[-] IncogCyberSpaceUser@piefed.social 19 points 10 months ago

Another similar line stuck out to me.

For many of my friends, adulthood meant not learning from parents but explaining the world to them.

[-] FunctionallyLiterate@lemmy.ca 11 points 10 months ago

Yeah, that one hit me, too, but I don't see it as similar. I think it was very spot-on considering the insane rate of change prevalent today. In my roughly five decades of life, I've watched things go from a relatively leisurely pace to what we have today where learned skills are frequently outdated within just a few years. It's felt much like watching a boulder grow and accelerate ever faster as it rolls downhill, demolishing everyone & everything in its way.

[-] IncogCyberSpaceUser@piefed.social 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

You’re right, the only real similarity is change itself, as you said. That’s all I was thinking about in that moment.
Thanks for sharing your perspective, it really added to the article for me.

[-] FunctionallyLiterate@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 months ago

☺️ Aww, shucks! Thanks for the compliment! Glad I'm still kinda useful as I get older...

[-] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago

Some good that did. They just stayed the same in my family.

[-] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 12 points 10 months ago

Okay but what if instead Poland gave money to me?

Pros: I would have more money and not be poor

Cons: Probably sill not going to allow my bloodline continue

[-] jaykrown@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago

Pay me and I'll move to Poland to help solve the problem.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 7 points 10 months ago

Do they have quick housing problem there? Normally thats a good way to solve it.

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago
[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 10 months ago

Lol I have no idea what the auto correct did there. I was falling alseep when I wrote this but im Pretty sure i was going for cheap housing.

[-] d00ery@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

The previous (and possibly current) govt was bribing the pension generation with 13 payments a year instead of 12.

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