To forgive, they need to be sorry. They're not sorry.
Most of them are writing fanfic about what happened (it was antifa! it was a tour! -- psst it was a takeover but we'll lie!). They never concede points in discussions (they don't admit Biden won the election) so it's hard to even understand what they actually believe.
What do I hear? We need to make amends and reach over the aisle. Like FFS. I hope they're the first that suffer from their own policies.