Meh, those designs were to ensure you got the right power supply and didn't fry the mobo.
It's a little of asshole design, but it also prevented warranty issues from people using the wrong PSU.
Having been on teams depliying thousands of laptops and desktops, knowing everyone had the right power supply was important - this helped us too. End users can be oblivious and will just plug in shit willy-nilly. We only had a few spare machines, and no spare time. Imagine if using a different PSU could cause problems - we could be chasing a few rogue power supplies for days.
I'm ok with this choice, even with the bit of asshole design.
Fortunately USB C adoption is making this problem go away.