I cried more than I think I ever have before.
lol, just wait.
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I cried more than I think I ever have before.
lol, just wait.
A beautiful finger painting my 19mo son made me of a butterfly and the words "and she became a beautiful butterfly
Oh fuck off that's so incredibly adorable and wholesome. I love it. That's the purest form of support right there. Thanks for sharing, this made my day a bit brighter.
That's so lovely! I'm happy for you. Your wife seems awesome, too!
As an ally that isn't aware of every bit of symbolism, the jar of pickles stood out to me. Does that, like, signify something, or do you just like pickles ? (totally valid if so, I fricken love pickles)
Lol, I can definitely see how that could catch someone off guard. Yes I love pickles but it's more of a "remedy" for some of the side effects I may experience at first.
Specifically, the medication Spironolactone is used as a testosterone blocker. It's a medication that is prescribed for a bunch of different things (cystic acne, high blood pressure, hormonal imbalances in woman) but it's a class of drug called a potassium sparing diuretic. So it flushes the body of fluid but unlike other diuretics, it doesn't flush out potassium in the process. So this makes electrolytes go out of whack and your body's response is to crave salt in order to balance out the potassium and electrolytes (at least that is how I understand it?)
So the pickles are for my salt cravings basically. ❤️
Guess that was a bit of a long response, but hopefully you found it interesting. Thanks for the question and your support!
That makes a lot of sense! Thanks for that
Short answer: The drugs involved in HRT (as well as hormone level changes themselves) can cause sodium cravings, and pickles are salty. Somewhere along the line it became a meme.
Long answer: Pickles and Transfems: Hormonal and Cultural Food Craving in Gender Transition
(Thanks for asking the question, otherwise I never would have found this amazing article. I love it when people dive deep into silly things such as "trans girl pickle meme".)
Thank you! That makes much more sense now. I'll check out the article
aaaaaah this is so adorable! congratulations I’m so happy for you!!!
Thank you ❤️ I am too!
Wow, I'm crying too. So awesome and so happy for you!! ❤️
That's awesome! Starting e is such an amazing feeling. I'm glad you have such a supportive family!