I'm too broke to contribute so these are reasons I won't follow/play them:
RPGM games have gotta be extremely interesting for me to bother. Generally I find basically any RPGM game clunky and ugly as hell. You can do a lot of the same things, basically, with Ren'py or Unity so I just don't understand why people bother with RPGM. Maybe it's very easy to handle from dev perspective? I remember reading somewhere that it can be difficult to do combat in Ren'py, but frankly that's generally not why I'm playing these types of games.
If a game has too much lead up to the nsfw scenes, it better have very interesting characters/plot because otherwise I will probably drop it. I have a pretty limited attention span so you gotta get me interested quick.
There's a couple kinks that I'm just flat not into to. I generally will just attempt to ignore or avoid them, but if that's the whole game.
Niece Waidhofer. Apparently had some long term struggles with mental health.
I remember she used to post on The Chive a lot. Was shocked to hear she died.